RuckerthLet’s face it: Most wheelchair users are way too nice. We all want to do the right thing, be independent, be strong, never ask for pity or a helping hand. That’s certainly admirable, if, say, your goal in life is for people to say glowing things about you at your funeral. Someone might even record it. But if, on the other hand, your goal in life is to have stuff, be comfortable, get Netflix, or go to Hawaii, you may have to reconsider your tactics. Always maintain the façade of the self-effacing yet courageous invalid — it can get you into most restaurants — but, beneath that benign demeanor, learn to play hardball. Don’t wait until they pass a law