When I was paralyzed, the last thing on my mind was whether or not I’d enjoy sex. Now it’s 20 years later and it’s a much different scenario. I’m 33, and yes, I have sex. Openly saying this however isn’t always easy. People can be ridiculously prying. They all want to know the same thing […]
Think of a family as a mobile hanging from the ceiling. Moving one of the hanging objects sets all the others in motion. Onset of disability can set every family member careening off on a different trajectory. While it’s a cliché to say that disability happens to an entire family, its impact can be enormous, […]
New Mobility’s yearly “Sex, Wheels and Relationships” issue turned 18 this February with the topic of same-sex marriage in “Here Comes the Bride … and Bride” by longtime managing editor Josie Byzek. To celebrate our coming of age, we re-read 56 taboo-breaking articles that have helped define the magazine since 1996. Has anything changed over […]
Come on Already! A frustrated 18-year-old boy screams from the far reaches of my psyche. The poor kid. Paralyzed in 1973. Still a virgin. And I was so ready. If you’ve never been an adolescent boy, you have no idea how overriding the anticipation of that first time can be. And I’d been rehearsing for […]
Here Comes the Bride … and Bride
Throughout our childhood in a small California farm town, my brother Mikey, four years older and my only sibling, was super-protective of me, but at times my worst tormentor. Brothers can be that way, especially early in life — bound by love, yet often at war. In high school his attention turned to pretty women […]
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I was able to relive one of my favorite childhood memories when I took my daughter Sarah and my service dog Schatzie on a 21-day, 3,000-mile road trip from California to Colorado.
Duane and Stacey Drake stuck together through hard times and now know the deeper joy of a lasting relationship. Ellen Stohl takes a look at the world of sex toys and mutual exploration.
By Jennifer Bridgman Chris and I were 32, married for less than a year and putting the finishing touches on a baby nursery when life unraveled at the seams after a motocross crash crushed his spinal cord and left him a T10 para. He spent just one month in rehab following emergency spinal fusion surgery. […]