

![]() 'Freak Shows' and the Rosary on my OvaryJun 03 12:58
By Kara Sheridan
Day 1 SisterSong Conference on Reproductive Justice
I read an article yesterday on the importance of finding an interesting title for blogs so I can now cross that off my list of to do's! Course — both could use a bit of explaining. The morning was filled with the somewhat usual pump-you-up for the theme of the conference, speakers and welcome addresses. Not that they weren't motivational, but I was ready to jump into the content! I had to choose from almost 20 workshops during the first breakout session, and I chose to attend a session on Physician Advocacy for Adolescent Reproductive Health. It's an awesome program organized by Physicians for Reproductive Choice and Health that gets medical professionals involved in the legislative advocacy process and direct education/communication with adolescents — it trains the doctors on these extremely important issues. They have a highly organized curriculum that is available to anyone who is interested (I'm now a proud owner of the CD). They were extremely receptive to including more specific information in their modules related to disability, so I plan to follow up with them on that!
There was more disability fun to be had during the lunch plenary presentation. Mia Mingus spoke on The Invisible Freak Show: Queerness, Disability, and Reproductive Justice. First, you should know that I was a bit apprehensive about this due to my concern about the usual uses of the term "freak," as I discussed with my brother last night on the phone....but I totally get Mia's use of this word and was intrigued by the parallels she drew between the queer/gay community and people with disabilities. We both experience inaccessibility to healthcare — blocked by physical and attitudinal barriers. We both are denied the right to parent with forced sterilizations, rejection by adoption programs, and inappropriate removal of children from homes because others view the parents as unfit simply because they are disabled or gay. Last, Mia discussed the concern she has for the current eugenics movement. An advertisement for a fertility clinic was shown that touts being able to "eliminate 90% of babies with chromosomal abnormalities"....Women's choices are completely changed with these technology "breakthroughs" because now that women are given what society views as the "right" choice (to terminate a pregnancy with a known disabled baby) then anyone who either didn't make the choice to abort or didn't have access or didn't choose to have these genetic tests and still had a baby w/ a disability will be viewed as society as making the WRONG choice and therefore "fully responsible" for the obligations of this baby/child/adult.
This disturbing thought has actually already been suggested in a new book on the Public Consequences of Reproductive Choices. It's definitely an alarming new stigma to consider as we think about the impact of these tests. So, about that title — Mia feels as though people with disabilities and queer/gay people can relate on the experience of being a public spectacle. Because of our status, the public feels they have the right to ask weird questions and basically stare/glare/scowl. It's invisible because it's both there all the time, but denied when discussed in most situations. I agree:-)
Oh...and about those rosaries/ovaries. We've had the chance to screen a few awesome films/documentaries. One featured a march, and one girl held a banner stating, "Keep your rosary off my ovaries"! I was quite amused by the wording but also a little uncomfortable since there seemed to be a piling up of anti-Catholicism around the conference. There have been some disturbing stories of denial of education/treatment to young women of color/rape survivors in Catholic hospital emergency rooms.... Being Catholic, I started to wonder — geez, am I the ONLY Catholic who doesn't hold the exact views that so many feel have oppressed women for years — well forever!?! No need to fear, apparently I am not! There are a few interesting Catholic organizations that apparently aim to address what I was feeling, and I'm going to attend a workshop later in the weekend — Catholics and Sex: Pro-Choice Catholicism. So, that'll be interesting:-) For now, my rosary and ovaries are both happily united!
Reprinted from Kara's Blog (June 1), www.karasheridan.com Post a comment about this blog!
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TurtleGirl |
Jun 05 07:50
Hey, just wanted to say it's good to see such a STRONG feminist voice on NM!! Keep on bloggin'
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shaylynn527 |
Jun 07 02:49
I love reading your blogs. You are so up front about things. Keep on bloggin' girl!
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Dominick |
Jun 07 05:03
Kara -- Excellent Post. I am always baffled by the disabled people who are discriminatory against the GLBT community...The similarities between the two groups and the oppression they face is ironic. Yet it happens all the time. As for the Catholic thing, I call myself a recovering Catholic, not just because of the oppression of women but the vast majority of minority groups. Even in Catholic school, they treated those of us in wheelchairs like we were stupid too because we had muscle diseases. I wasn't down with that or the fact that once a friend of my family came out of the closet they all kicked him out of the church. So, its nice to see not all Catholics have the same views that made me want to leave the church.
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psquire |
Jun 07 08:49
Rock on, your blog rules!
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AyersFORCE1 |
Jun 07 08:55
Great blog! Keep up the good writing. I hope to read more of you soon.
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lmhagen |
Jun 07 09:20
Thanks for the intellegent comments/thoughts!
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rjs2421 |
Jun 07 09:31
You write really good Kara, keep up the great work!
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elizabeth1612 |
Jun 07 09:55
I love it! I hope to see more of your blogs here!
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jpwims02 |
Jun 07 10:20
This is very interesting. Great point of view. Eye catching title.
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supergimp7984 |
Jun 08 12:05
Awesome Blog Girl!!
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Shortyforlife04 |
Jun 09 01:36
This is awesome. Keep it up! :-)
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ucfxknightrider |
Jun 09 08:44
I love the points you made in this blog. It was an interesting and entertaining read! I look forward to more of your postings!
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jkdclick |
Jun 10 02:27
Great blog! Keep it up.
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smilbern |
Jun 10 10:16
rosary on my ovary... i love it. so glad you were able to go and tell us about it, we need more representation at things like this!
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TinyGlassShoe |
Jun 10 11:38
Nice Descriptive Article Kara!! :) You need to write more here on other topics with your "lady on her throne" eye!! ;)
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bsherida |
Jun 10 05:12
When my grandmother had her first period, she was prepared to quit her formal education and become the wife and mother........get married. From this strong pair of ovaries, developed the women in our family of today. I believe my grandmother knew the tide would turn soon as she was very proud of my mother's education and mine. Now, Kara, if we can just keep legislation off our ovaries in the next few years to come, there is no limit to what we will accomplish for ourselves and the generations of both genders to follow.
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mingus |
Jun 11 01:09
Thanks for blogging about me, although, you give me too much credit :)
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HandiCandiJoZ |
Jun 11 09:55
very interesting, lots of insight, love seeing your ideas.
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lilmunch |
Jun 11 10:08
Hey Kara... sweet blog girl...
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mom.on.wheels |
Jun 12 12:07
Loved reading your blog, very well written..can't wait to read more from you. oh, and yes I know far to well about being a public spectacle everytime I go to wal-mart and such pushing a cart in my wheelchair with my son with me. I just know some people staring are trying to figure if I'm babysitting or he really is my son.
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ssejal |
Jun 12 12:49
Clever, well-written, and interesting -- nicely done, Kara. I think I'll be reading this more regularly than my school reading. :)
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KristenMD |
Jun 12 02:02
Way to go Kara. You are great! Kristen
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kelowna77 |
Jun 12 05:26
keep bloggin kara! you go girl.
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Calli19880 |
Jun 12 08:12
You have such a cute sense of humor! :0) Having attended conferences with my daughter, I saw many views on reproductive choices while there. The most inspiring was a family where the father had OI (Osteogenesis Imperfecta), the sons had it but the daughters didn't, yet the daughter adopted children with OI. How awesome!!! It gave me hope that my daughter, Rebecca, will have choices when it comes to that time. Right now she talks of wanting to do both, having a child and adopting. I'm right with you on the issue of Catholic guilt. LOL I do feel the Catholic women of today are more empowered today. Great blog! I look forward to hearing more from you! You gave me a smile today!
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dayers |
Jun 12 08:45
Great blog, your writing style is quite unique, honest, and interesting. It really makes you think. Looking forward to more of your blogs.
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tcoogan |
Jun 12 09:19
Well done Kara. Your level of introspection is amazing! I hope to see more of your blogs in the future. Tanya McAdory-Coogan
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cashland |
Jun 12 09:31
Great blog, look forward to reading more.
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eastcoastmom |
Jun 12 09:38
Keep writing! Looking forward to reading more of your blogs!!
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jmcgovern |
Jun 12 09:58
as a lapsed Catholic, I laughed outloud (whether you intended that to happen or not)...enjoy the workshops and write on!
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mbhuber |
Jun 12 02:17
Interesting comments on a very complicated set of issues. Greatly appreciated your sense of humor.
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kbrtmyr |
Jun 12 02:39
Thought provoking and clearly written blog. I'm with you on the Q's in the general public's eyes when disabled folks parent or have romantic relationships. Good to let them know we all have human being experiences, just like "them".
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Rgraise |
Jun 12 02:41
Excellent post Kara! Much like yourself, I have always been able to see the parallel between people with disabilities and the GLBT community. As a professional speaker, I've been able to share my thoughts with many on the subject. Now, in reading your blog, I'm glad to know that I'm not the only one who can see the similarities. Great job...I look forward to more posts from you!
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jamiekendall200 |
Jun 12 05:39
Hey Kara - I really like your blog - I believe that women with disabilities have alot to talk about on this subject, and I appreciate the perspective you bring. I agree that there is alot of overlap in our issues with those of other minority groups, especially GBLT regarding this concern. Keep it up! I remain, as always, a huge fan of yours! Jamie Kendall
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Lukasmummy |
Jun 12 09:28
Beautifully written, I love your style. Looking forward to reading more of your posts.
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amyley |
Jun 13 10:55
Awesome blog, Kara! Really hope to read more from you in the very near future.. Amy Baxter-Ley
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Natalie_67 |
Jun 13 11:53
Great Blog Kara!
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jjohnsonsears |
Jun 13 12:40
Great Job, Kara. Maybe someone will listen to what you and the many of people with disabilities have to say. I know I learned alot , about what you go thru, while staying with you back in the fall, from a fracture. I have all the respect in the world for you, and you have enlighten my eyes to the world, of what you go thru. Keep up the great work, and never stop speaking out
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AuntCheri |
Jun 13 01:35
Great Blog, very interesting and insightful.
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edmoedmo1 |
Jun 13 01:46
Great article. Keep it up!!
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GeorgiaPeach |
Jun 13 06:17
Excellent writing, but I think the analogy comparing the disabled to the gay/lesbian community is an atrocity. My husband is a doctor that helps disabled children and they face real struggles, not only physically, but psychologially, socially, etc. Gays and lesbians are usually able-bodied, can compete in all sports, perform all jobs, and otherwise function in society in all ways as a straight person. (And I have never known a gay / lesbian to undergo forced sterilization - what's that about?) Anyway, while I understand some of the parellel (both groups have reasons to have chips on their shoulders toward persons not like them - oh, wait, who is being discriminating?) I really don't believe that the disabled person - who is born with a physical disabling limitation - should be lumped in with gays/lesbians who are not in any way disabled other than by their own self-pity.
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turbokev |
Jun 13 09:27
I am Catholic and I am finally seeing the church beginning to implement services for disabled studens at the local Catholic schools. Where were they in my youngster years?
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logansmom |
Jun 13 09:59
Hey Kara! Keep up the bloggin'!
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threetimestwo |
Jun 14 12:28
Great Blog Kara, you of course raised an eyebrow with the title and then continued to keep my interest as you tied it all together. Georgia Peach needs to be a little more open minded. There was not an attempt to compare the gay community and disabled individuals to say that they are the same but you have to see that there are similarities in the way society as a whole views individuals that do not meet the status quo of walking and talking like everyone else. People with mental disorders can also function in society, but they are also viewed differently by the social majority because they are not the 'same'. Thanks Kara for sharing your insight, it is very refreshing and your personality shines through.
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smf |
Jun 14 01:16
great job Kara
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mhv |
Jun 14 12:49
So wonderful to read a feminist perspective on this site!
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ttreinen |
Jun 14 02:44
Great blog! Keep up the great work. I really enjoy your writing.
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slcorbett |
Jun 14 09:33
Interesting piece. Way to bring awareness to everyone. Keep up the good work.
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danabob |
Jun 15 10:43
Kara, Keep on Writing!
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anjncullen |
Jun 15 10:52
Great blog...very interesting...keep up the good work!!!
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cchosea |
Jun 15 09:59
Great Blog. Keep up the writing.
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bobbye1 |
Jun 16 11:26
Very good. Keep it up.
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pedmag |
Jun 16 01:17
I really enjoyed!! Great blog Kara!!
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hoseke03 |
Jun 17 12:15
keep it up Kara.
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diburns |
Jun 17 02:32
Great job. I enjoyed reading your informed views on pertinent and somewhat controversial topics. Hope to see more of your blogs.
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MerryA |
Jun 18 11:39
Love the feminist point of view. Thanks.
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Bizzer |
Jun 19 10:56
I love "Rosary on my Ovary" it's catchy! Plus pretty interesting points on eugenics discussion...
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khosea |
Jun 19 04:19
Very well written, informative and interesting. Keep up the great work.
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AudacityLady |
Jun 20 02:04
Hi Kara! Yes! I made it here. It's a good entry. You covered so many topics I wouldn't know which one to respond to. You have a good following. Keep up the good work. Nathasha www.audacitymagazine.com
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gamma |
Jun 22 09:59
Enjoyed the artcle found it very interesting, keep it going!!!
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Jane |
Jun 24 04:26
Well written! Opens the book for open discussion among folks, especially with the "choices" available to women...thanks for your comments! Jane
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