Hey everyone this is my first post|
First let me describe my disability experience, I am a female who was born with cp andhave learned to adapt to life with a disability. The type of CP I have is rare and called extrapyramidal CP and differs from spastic in the following ways:
1. my muscles do not jump sporadically instead they respond to my emotions or when i am trying to concentrate. I am able to get totally relaxed on my own but I can't have any interruptions.
2. my problems disappear in my sleep ( as weird as that sounds I have been told by my parents that it is true)
I have been very lucky in the fact that I am not cognitively impaired. I have been wheelchair bond since I was 2 and Power wheelchair bond since five years old. I can use the restroom with assistance and I use attendant care to help me with my needs as I live away from home most of the time.
now that I have described me, I will detail the purpose of starting this thread. I have been thinking about sex lately and how it would work. Also how starting a relationship works before sex like dating. I would love to hear dating and sex stories from people who share my type of disability also advice on what to expect. my main problem is that my muscles respond to my emotions so sex and all the emotions that sex entails could be a problem. I have never dated but now that I am older(20)would like to start.
Edited by chemicalzombie (05/23/10 09:00 PM)