I am a stepmother, 6 hours away from my stepson who is a t5 para. He has many problems, but here's a biggie-he has three pressure sores and goes to a wound care center every week. He tells his dad and I that he CANNOT take a shower with these sores. It's quite possible he has not taken a shower in a month. His mother, who lives with him, is his "caregiver". What would you recommend I do? (He has had pressure sores for several years-I'm sure he has taken a shower in that time. They moved to a new house a month ago-I'm thinking he's afraid to use the new shower. Not that I would know this.) Should I get involved? Get his dad involved? Call the wound care center? We're visiting next week...