Hello All, I am in my mid 20's and my wife and I are pretty sexually active, I believe I have read every piece of information regarding SCI & sex, My question is....Are there any COMPLETE para's/quads out there that can have an orgasm (not just ejaculate), I can ejaculate without a problem however I have never had an orgasm but have heard rumors of SCI men having them. I read so much about sex being in your brain etc etc. But has any COMPLETE sci's had a real orgasm and if so how do you know you've had one, many people seem to think just because you came your had one but thats not true, I have almost a perfect life, money, cars, wife, houses etc but not being able to have ever felt an orgasm ruins me (i was 14 when I has accident) It doesn't help that I cant watch 5 minutes of TV/internet/magazines without sex being slammed in my face. I should ad...yes my wife spend tons of time exploring sex,talking etc. but I need the million dollar orgasm question answered.