i watched 'brokeback mountain' yesterday. i especially noted the wives' ways of coping with what was either felt or known to various degrees. i wish there were more examples of living with that particular struggle in a healthy manner.

why any wife woud wait for the boys to descend from brokeback mountain is unclear to me. who deserves the ramshackle trailor of aloneness and who gets the warmth of home and why?
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