#44041 - 07/02/06 08:45 AM
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sodapop
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i doubt X can help herself but scream wolf. just because someone strikes a match, doesn't mean you call in a four-alarm fire.
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#44042 - 07/02/06 08:47 AM
Re: For Lisa
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sodapop
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Originally posted by Xuxan:
Lisa doesn't just need peer support.
She needs legal assistance. She needs to know how to get Randy out of her house and keep him out. She needs to be assured there will be legal repercussions if he refuses to leave.
She needs to be sure the police understand she is the victim. Which I why I highlighted the number for Marion County Sheriff Victim Services 352-369-6845
She needs to know how to make sure she is safe. Which may mean staying away from her house for awhile. So she needs a place she can go. Which is why I gave her numbers for safe houses.
She may need financial resources. She has to be able to afford to be where ever it is she goes.
She may need counseling. Woman/Men can get into these kind of relationship blindly or they can learn to read the signals and stay clear.
You may think this is a simple get out and keep out - and it could be - but it might not be - and Lisa needs to be prepared for as many possible scenarios as possible.
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#44043 - 07/02/06 08:55 AM
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sodapop
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sodapop
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Member # 3926 did randy ever rape you ladies? i ask because the former woman known as Xuxan is crying wolf on lisa's behalf at the sex
forum Posts: 6831 | From: new york | Registered: Feb 2005 | IP: Janet
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quote:Originally posted by sodapop:
did randy ever rape you ladies? i ask because the former woman known as Xuxan is crying wolf on lisa's behalf at the sex
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No Randy never raped me or physically hurt me. Posts: 364 | From: The corner of 45th and Main | Registered: Nov 2003 | IP: Logged
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#44044 - 07/02/06 09:33 AM
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joyt
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Originally posted by sodapop:
killjoy are you sure X isn't Kathy Pastore?
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#44045 - 07/02/06 11:01 AM
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sodapop
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Originally posted by joyt: Originally posted by sodapop:
killjoy are you sure X isn't Kathy Pastore?
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#44046 - 07/02/06 11:45 AM
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joyt
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Originally posted by sodapop: Originally posted by joyt: Originally posted by sodapop:
killjoy are you sure X isn't Kathy Pastore?
to clarify your revisionist history, kathyp did leave that nursing home, but i held no housewarming party for her, bogus or otherwise. comprende? how many times are u going to mention that u offered and gave her a gift?
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#44047 - 07/02/06 11:59 AM
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flicka
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Originally posted by Xuxan:
You may think this is a simple get out and keep out - and it could be - but it might not be - and Lisa needs to be prepared for as many possible scenarios as possible.
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#44048 - 07/02/06 01:57 PM
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nadajoe
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I & others have been abused by the gov't. ss, ssdi, ssi, kamp, kerb?...they are all abusive in some way or other. Crips are set up for abuse from the first day on out! Many here will prolly not agree but they are rich or feel that they got a good deal somehow. I like many others got the short end of the stick. I still got a hold on but it is slipping. I can feel how women feel abused...yep, I can. ,,,joe..
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#44049 - 07/02/06 02:04 PM
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sodapop
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Originally posted by joyt: Originally posted by sodapop: Originally posted by joyt: quote:
Originally posted by sodapop:
killjoy are you sure X isn't Kathy Pastore?
to clarify your revisionist history, kathyp did leave that nursing home, but i held no housewarming party for her, bogus or otherwise. comprende? how many times are u going to mention that u offered and gave her a gift?
i guess until i get alzhiemer's or die.
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#44050 - 07/02/06 04:26 PM
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katka
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Doesn't Lisa have any family?
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#44051 - 07/02/06 06:48 PM
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I may get shot for saying it but I'm beginning to believe there is a bit of "drame queen" crap going on here.
You'd think Lisa would have figured out a way to at the very least let one of us know how she is doing.
I'm feeling a little bit like a mouse in a maze with at least one jackass watching me look for the cheese.
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#44052 - 07/02/06 07:18 PM
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Ron
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If I were truly interested in a person from this board's well-being(snowball/hell/etc.) because I felt they were in need of help, I would definitely try to help them outside of the main board. If the "help" was information, I'd PM, e-mail, or call them with it rather than broadcasting it to everyone on the board in a dedicated thread.
In this case, if I gave a piss about "FL Breeze" or whoever and felt she was being "abused", I wouldn't post "my help" in a place where I KNOW the "abuser" will see it, for fear of increasing/worsening the "abuse". Then again, I'm not a drama queen, a busy-body, obese, "slow", a troll, or someone who hopes to be perceived by you assholes as some kind of "internet good samaritan". That's just me, though.
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#44053 - 07/02/06 08:15 PM
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flicka
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Originally posted by Ron:
I wouldn't post "my help" in a place where I KNOW the "abuser" will see it, for fear of increasing/worsening the "abuse".
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#44055 - 07/03/06 01:53 PM
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LASHB
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I missed something... 
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#44056 - 07/03/06 02:02 PM
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Ron
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Originally posted by flicka: Originally posted by Ron:
I wouldn't post "my help" in a place where I KNOW the "abuser" will see it, for fear of increasing/worsening the "abuse".
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