#43705 - 04/27/06 06:56 AM
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Wheelchair_diva
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I've only see pictures of non disabled women posted here; and yes, it is offenssive to an extend when others think that because a woman is "disabled" she is unatractive. But other people may think that is "sick" to consider a girl in a chair or disabled atractive, sexy, etc.
I am a very vain, confident woman and I hate when others think of this as a way to overcompensate for what I don't have (my ability to walk).
I am not a beauty queen, but I am confortable in my own skin.
It is nothing wrong with finding a disabled woman atractive. However, that is different than finding the disability atractive and not the woman.
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#43707 - 04/27/06 09:55 AM
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MissLiz
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Originally posted by Xuxan:
Does it feel hurtful when you see men post pics of women you are incapable of looking like (that is if you are)?
Susan
I'm secure enough to realize media is youth driven and sex sells.
If the pic is of a disbled women it wouldn't matter either.
I thought the Italian calender of the nude women in chairs was outstanding. I like the Colours ad with the preg. quad on the cover of NM one year as well.[/qb][/QUOTE]
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#43709 - 04/27/06 12:08 PM
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Wabi
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I don't know any woman that can. 
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#43710 - 04/27/06 12:11 PM
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walkin and rollin
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Even those perfect bodies are insecure. Rollin's sister is a model (she's in the dept store ads in the Sunday paper) and she worries about her butt and her boobs and the younger tighter bodies out there. She's nineteen.
A couple years ago, I squoze my behind into a pair of size 4 jeans. They were a size too small but I got the zipper up. My thighs were still too big to me. I had a size 4 waist but a size 6 butt :rolleyes: My body will never be the ideal feminine figure and I'm AB. I'm not threatened by perfect little tightbodies. Those bodies are gonna go soft before my mind does . Jealous- you betcha. Threatened- no.
Guys like to look. They aren't saying they hate disabled womens' bodies, they just want their fantasies.
On the other hand, Rollin's brother may get drafted into the NFL this weekend. He looks kinda like Brendan Fraser with a tight butt. I'll look for a pic of him and post it if I can. This is the younger brother rollin used to beat up when they were kids- now he's looking at a pro football career, and rollin gets to hope the stadium will be accessible.
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#43711 - 04/27/06 12:49 PM
Re: A question to the women of NM
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Peaches
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Hi Susan,...my initial simple musing on this interesting topic: little boys with their unattainable little toys... :rolleyes:
When men post pictures of what a real woman's body does not looks like, I tend to think they are little boys looking at Playboy. Or grown men trying to be one of the "good old boys". As if a quad had a snowballs' chance in hell to...
Men are sexually more visually oriented. Perhaps their postings should be offensive to me, especially since they are also disable, but they just aren't. Perhaps their self-image is low. Then again, these men aren't close to me so I could really give a rat's ass what they post 
it is nothing wrong with finding a disabled woman attractive. However, that is different than finding the disability attractive and not the woman
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#43712 - 04/27/06 12:51 PM
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Wheelchair_diva
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I wonder if these women are relly disabled or just models posing in wheelchairs. I know that when someone spend a lot of time in a wheelchair you body tend to change and these women are either recently injured or just faking it.
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#43713 - 04/27/06 12:55 PM
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MerryA
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Originally posted by joyt: [QB]  [ /QB]
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#43715 - 04/27/06 01:11 PM
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harley-lynn
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I don't like when the guys post these so-called, "pefect/beautiful" women...Do these women really exist?...is it airbrushed?...Do these guys expect to meet a women like that and married her?...or whatever?...Gee-whiz...that leaves me out of the running just because I don't look like the "perfect/beautiful" women!...doesn't personally account for anything anymore?... :p
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#43716 - 04/27/06 01:39 PM
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jeffh55
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these pix are simply eye candy...give me a real woman...dis or AB, with all of her imperfections, in person w/ a bit of an evil glint in her eyes & a smile on her face that sez she doesnt mind all of my imperfections but, rather, finds that i have other aspects that she finds attractive,,,like my drank too many 6-packs abs
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#43717 - 04/27/06 01:59 PM
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flicka
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Originally posted by MissLiz:
I like the Colours ad with the preg. quad on the cover of NM one year as well.
Nude postings don't bother me.
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#43718 - 04/27/06 02:59 PM
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Paul I
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Hey, I look at photos of Aston Martins, Malibu beach houses and the photos posted here occasionally and they're all the same. They are not reality, they are not really reasonable things to consider but what the hey, it's all part of our world. No big deal.
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#43719 - 04/27/06 03:33 PM
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MissLiz
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Originally posted by flicka:
Nude postings don't bother me.
I learned my lesson to only come here while at my home when the kids are not about.
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#43721 - 04/27/06 08:35 PM
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rosebud
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Ah, yes, I recall my body looking as good as the woman with baby when I was 21, but I still wouldn't go naked in public or in front of a camera ab or not.
These women obviously have no problem with displaying their naked bodies, that's their prerogative. The calendar pics are tastefully done. Betcha most of the camera people were men.
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#43722 - 04/27/06 08:49 PM
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Linda252
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No, those photos are NOT realistic depictions. The wheelchair in the photos is just a prop for models who fit society's idea of "normal." Where are these women's scars? Where are the women with scoliosis, or atrophied legs or any of the other common physical components of disability? Posting photos of REAL disabled women would make a statement about not being ashamed of one's body...
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#43724 - 04/27/06 10:18 PM
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MerryA
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Originally posted by Lorrie:
I don't mind the tasteful nude photos. I'm more appauled at the obese women nudes.
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#43725 - 04/27/06 10:51 PM
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SamTheStudent
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Originally posted by Xuxan:
Why are only perfect pics shown?
-what is left of those whose beauty is unconventional?
People with disabilities are exposed to the same media that flood society with these false definitions of what is beauty. It sucks.
But, those with unconventional beauty can live happily as long as they have inner beauty and understand that everyone is beautiful to someone.
I think all the women here are beautiful.
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#43726 - 04/27/06 10:59 PM
Re: A question to the women of NM
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SamTheStudent
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A good example of this is New Mobility magazine. I would like to see a picture of a twisted, atrophied body or a nice quad belly someday instead of a conventionally pretty woman in an issue. Especially for their February issue.
I don't have bad feelings toward people with an appearance that society deems beautiful or people whose disability is not an obvious part of their physique, but disability is what makes us different so it is not meaningful to see a person representing disability who just looks like an AB sitting down.
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#43727 - 04/28/06 09:18 AM
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Lorrie
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Originally posted by MerryA: Originally posted by Lorrie:
I don't mind the tasteful nude photos. I'm more appauled at the obese women nudes.
I have a somewhat Rubenesque body type. Those women were shapely but not obese.
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#43728 - 04/28/06 10:03 AM
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TanQuad
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For me plain ol’ physical attraction is not about having a “perfect” body, whether (according to an individual’s preference) that be skinny, voluptuous, athletic, AB, Disabled, or whatever, but rather it’s mostly in the woman’s attitude about herself. A woman who’s happy AND confident in her own skin is ALWAYS the most attractive woman in the room, no matter what size or shape! That said, arrogance, unkindness, and other like attributes, ALWAYS turn even the most attractive woman into the butt-ugliest. But for me, true beauty, which is light years beyond mere physical attraction, is in born in the heart. And when I’m in love, the body that carries that beautiful heart becomes the ideal that draws my eye and sets the standard of physical attraction for me.
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#43729 - 04/28/06 11:47 AM
Re: A question to the women of NM
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johnnyquad
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Originally posted by TanQuad:
For me plain ol’ physical attraction is not about having a “perfect” body, whether (according to an individual’s preference) that be skinny, voluptuous, athletic, AB, Disabled, or whatever, but rather it’s mostly in the woman’s attitude about herself. A woman who’s happy AND confident in her own skin is ALWAYS the most attractive woman in the room, no matter what size or shape! That said, arrogance, unkindness, and other like attributes, ALWAYS turn even the most attractive woman into the butt-ugliest. But for me, true beauty, which is light years beyond mere physical attraction, is in born in the heart. And when I’m in love, the body that carries that beautiful heart becomes the ideal that draws my eye and sets the standard of physical attraction for me.
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#43730 - 04/28/06 02:02 PM
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Lorrie
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I don't think that when the people that are posting photos (myself included) they are actually thinking about love or a long term relationship, just eye candy.
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#43731 - 04/28/06 02:15 PM
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TanQuad
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Well, for me, that confident and self-loving attitude applies to what attracts me as far as eye-candy too. You can pick that up in pics too...at least that's what I'm attracted to. I'd rather see a "real" woman nude than a "fake/supposedly-perfect" one any day.
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#43732 - 04/28/06 02:27 PM
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Lorrie
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So women with fit, thinner physiques are not "real", because they happen to be the "ideal" to many, means they are fake and lack substance? That seems bigoted. We all have different preferences, it shouldn't make anyone feel lesser.
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#43733 - 04/28/06 02:58 PM
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TanQuad
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No, not at all…I apologize for not making myself understood. By “fake/supposedly-perfect” I meant idealized pics of women that have been airbrushed and fabricated, to have a more professional look about them, like you find in a magazine or advertisement. Pictures where the subjects have had something added or removed to/from how they really look, or even just ones that are too staged, I am personally less intrigued by. Honestly, I find women of ALL shapes and sizes, abilities and disabilities, attractive and sexy within the parameters of what I wrote above…I don’t make any assumptions about a persons substance based on their physical appearance. I’m just speaking to what kind of “eye-candy” I’m more aroused by, not the person in the pics’ worth as a person.
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#43734 - 04/28/06 05:53 PM
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Lorrie
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Oh, I totally agree about the airbrushing and unnaturally thin.
Some people can never meet the "ideal" (prepubescent body type), it's just not their body make up. It is very sad that girls and boys starve themselves, never happy in their own skin. On the other hand, I find trimmer body types more appealing as I think physically fit people represent self discipline and healthy lifestyles.
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#43735 - 04/28/06 05:57 PM
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corlorde
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Ohhh I'm so offended! Those guys on that *other** thread are AIRBRUSHED! It is so UNFAIR that us disabled guys have to compete with societies UNREALISTIC expecations!
I AM SICK AND TIRED OF IT!!!!!
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#43737 - 04/28/06 06:08 PM
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Wheelchair_diva
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Originally posted by corlorde: Ohhh I'm so offended! Those guys on that *other** thread are AIRBRUSHED! It is so UNFAIR that us disabled guys have to compete with societies UNREALISTIC expecations!
I AM SICK AND TIRED OF IT!!!!!
Originally posted by xuxan: Why or why not is it OK to celebrate unconventional/ disabled beauty here at NM?
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#43738 - 04/28/06 06:11 PM
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corlorde
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Originally posted by Lorrie:
LOL Corey, thank goodness none of us are board monitors.
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#43739 - 04/28/06 06:13 PM
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Lorrie
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Shut it down! Shut it down! <----said like the chef from hell's kitchen.
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#43741 - 04/28/06 07:09 PM
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Gimpy77
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Hey, if you have puffie nipples (my personal fetish) by all means, post, advertise, ect. I'll be all over your boobies like a algie eater. Disabled, chair, who gives a rip. (Preferably, smaller breasts, but thats just me.) Any of you women feel board for a hour or so?
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#43742 - 04/28/06 07:13 PM
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sodapop
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Originally posted by Lorrie: Originally posted by MerryA: Originally posted by Lorrie:
I don't mind the tasteful nude photos. I'm more appauled at the obese women nudes.
I have a somewhat Rubenesque body type. Those women were shapely but not obese.
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#43744 - 04/28/06 07:54 PM
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johnnyquad
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Originally posted by sodapop: Originally posted by Gimpy77: Hey, if you have puffie nipples (my personal fetish) by all means, post, advertise, ect. I'll be all over your boobies like a algie eater. Disabled, chair, who gives a rip. (Preferably, smaller breasts, but thats just me.) Any of you women feel board for a hour or so?
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#145774 - 02/07/09 08:12 AM
Re: A question to the women of NM
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What a refreshing report!! at last someone is talking openly about the sexual and love needs of disabled people. We may be disabled but we still have sexual urges and a need for a loving relationship. For some severely disabled men and women the prospect of not having experienced sex before death is a living death. In my desperation I sought the services of a very gentle and understanding lady who I found on the internet. Physically I knew the prospect of a successful relationship would be limited, but to my delight and surprise this charming lady settled my concerns. She had a disabled love aid chair. A specially designed disabledloveaid. A sex chair designed for physically disabled men and women. A comfortable and sensual chair that vibrates and massages. Suffering from some difficulty in maintaing an errection the disabledloveaid sex chair overcome this problem. I took my experience from these loving encounters with this special lady and had the courage to seek a permanent relationship with a girlfriend, who I am proud to say is now my wife. I purchased the disabledloveaid sex chair and my life albeit will always be limited, I can at least express my love and affection to my wife in a normal way with the aid of our sex chair. This is available at http://www.disabledloveaid.co.uk or via a grant scheme on the NHS. Contrary to opinion disabled men and women are capable of loving and sexual relationships. Thank you and I just hope that someone out there who is as lonely and confused as I was finds the disabledloveaid sex chair and finds a life they deserve
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#145788 - 02/07/09 01:21 PM
Re: A question to the women of NM
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soda
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no solicitation,
without representation!
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#145797 - 02/07/09 02:56 PM
Re: A question to the women of NM
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Paul I
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As he booked into a hotel a man said to the receptionist, "I hope the porn channel in my room is disabled."
"No," she says, "It's regular porn, you sick bastard."
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#145810 - 02/07/09 05:30 PM
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lazer
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ive seen very many attractive women in chairs, and with other disabilities....... on this site included
most able body men just dont want a dis woman.....simple as that
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#145813 - 02/07/09 06:44 PM
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MerryA
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most able body men just dont want a dis woman.....simple as that
Except of course all the able bodied men that are with women WD. The only thing simple is your thinking.
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#145814 - 02/07/09 06:49 PM
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lazer
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merry, i wasnt trying being offensive, sorry
of course theres men who dont mind a dis, or however u wanna phrase
im just saying oddwise........
just like saying, 1 out of 50,000 women would wanna be with a male quad.....
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#145837 - 02/08/09 08:26 AM
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Lorrie
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no solicitation,
without representation!
LOL that chair is ridiculous.
This site has some handy sex aids
http://www.liberator.com/index.php
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#145843 - 02/08/09 03:29 PM
Re: A question to the women of NM
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flicka
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As he booked into a hotel a man said to the receptionist, "I hope the porn channel in my room is disabled."
"No," she says, "It's regular porn, you sick bastard."
lmao ! Cute.
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#145880 - 02/09/09 08:32 AM
Re: A question to the women of NM
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corlorde
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LMAO, not in this lifetime. That site should read: disabledsexaid.co.uk, not love aid. Love is love, it isn't about sex. Sex is a by product of Love. But what do I know, I'm old fashioned. In conclusion, love isn't about sex, it should be about how we feel about one another. I love lots of people. I don't want everyone I love strapped in some chair. That's me, what do I know.
~Corey
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#145930 - 02/10/09 07:17 AM
Re: A question to the women of NM
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kimberleyb
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i disagree lazer - i think lots of men are interested in crip girls
I'm fending them off with a stick this week - most of them anyway, one can kiss me and hug me all he wants..
I guess the disability is mitigated by the fact that I'm out there doing what the hot guys do, skiing, paddling, being my hot self
the ones that are unilaterally turned off are not really sophisticated or eveolved enough to be interesting to us anyway
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#145940 - 02/10/09 01:15 PM
Re: A question to the women of NM
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lazer
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im not directing this to u kim....... just a overall opinion
interested in and wanting forever = 2 different things
but theres a difference between wanting to have sex with a disabled girl and wanting a future with her.......
of course it applies to guys to, lol
many guys will do fat or ugly chicks too as long as their friends dont find out, lol.....
guys are guys........ most would enjoy a nite of fun with a girl, shake her hand and say thankyou, bye
most girls want the romance and committment first........
if your a girl and u disagree with that, well, i guess your what all the prudish women call the stereotypical names = sl-t and wh-res, hehe
for the record, im happy kim has guys falling over her.... kims very pretty, and to be honest, minus your disability, i cant think of any guy i ever met who was straight that wouldnt, ummmmm....... do ya, hehe...... in fact theres a few others on this site too.....
maybe all you dis women have 100's of guys after them loving you, proposing marriage..... all i know is 99% of dis girls i talked to, many from this site, they said the opposite of kim..... oh well...
shrugs
ANY woman can get a guy for sex...... all u gotta do is walk up to different guys and whisper = do u wanna f-ck me? 1 guy will say yes before you reach the 10th, lol.......
looks and beauty have a huge impact on being desireable and wanted, but its a whole different story if someone wants to keep u for his own
just my opinions......
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#145941 - 02/10/09 01:15 PM
Re: A question to the women of NM
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lazer
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im not directing this to u kim....... just a overall opinion
interested in and wanting forever = 2 different things
but theres a difference between wanting to have sex with a disabled girl and wanting a future with her.......
of course it applies to guys to, lol
many guys will do fat or ugly chicks too as long as their friends dont find out, lol.....
guys are guys........ most would enjoy a nite of fun with a girl, shake her hand and say thankyou, bye
most girls want the romance and committment first........
if your a girl and u disagree with that, well, i guess your what all the prudish women call the stereotypical names = sl-t and wh-res, hehe
for the record, im happy kim has guys falling over her.... kims very pretty, and to be honest, minus your disability, i cant think of any guy i ever met who was straight that wouldnt, ummmmm....... do ya, hehe...... in fact theres a few others on this site too.....
maybe all you dis women have 100's of guys after them loving you, proposing marriage..... all i know is 99% of dis girls i talked to, many from this site, they said the opposite of kim..... oh well...
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ANY woman can get a guy for sex...... all u gotta do is walk up to different guys and whisper = do u wanna f-ck me? 1 guy will say yes before you reach the 10th, lol.......
looks and beauty have a huge impact on being desireable and wanted, but its a whole different story if someone wants to keep u for his own
just my opinions......
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#146308 - 02/16/09 01:30 AM
Re: A question to the women of NM
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ok.... what do you think of this???
driving down the street, a hot guy next to me flirted and of course I flirted back, because I know where this is going : ) it happened before and I think it's funny, besides I wanted to know how long it will take him to realized I have a chair at the passenger side... (i'm gigling now) anyways, he followed me and continued to flirt and finally he saw "the chair" man!!!! he has this embarassing look and took off... ok , so I guess the chair scared the shi* out of him right???
I was at the book store... I transfered to the couch to get comfortable while reading a book... I parked my chair next to the couch so it's not in the way... later...I guess this guy was focusing on me he didn't see the chair... I saw him checking me out and finally came up right in front of me and ask if he could sit next to me and I said "sure" he smiled ... after awhile he started talking to me and asking personal questions... I didn't want to waist my time nor his and I really had to get back to reading.. so I moved my chair closer so he can see it... right there and then he said.. oh I have to go... see!!! the chair scared him huh???
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#146309 - 02/16/09 06:41 AM
Re: A question to the women of NM
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ANY woman can get a guy for sex...... all u gotta do is walk up to different guys and whisper = do u wanna f-ck me? 1 guy will say yes before you reach the 10th, lol.......
We used to have a saying in the Army, "god invented military bars so the big and ugly girls could get laid too". Man, do I have some funny stories.
Having said that, I wouldn't sleep with any woman who just walked up to me and whispered, "do u wanna f-ck me"... sorry.
I do know some people who would, however. I can think of a couple of friends who have been married 5 or 6 times... probably them, lmao.
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#146311 - 02/16/09 07:46 AM
Re: A question to the women of NM
[Re: hugzmorekizzz]
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corlorde
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ok.... what do you think of this???
I think those guys are stupid. They do not want to talk to you because you get around using a wheelchair? You don't need that BS in your life, for certain. You are not judged by your wheelchair...if you are, they are not people you want in your life. Do you define yourself by your disability?
No one will care about that after you are dead. What kind of person are you? Find someone who recognizes your personality and what you can give to others.
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#146320 - 02/16/09 10:42 AM
Re: A question to the women of NM
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lazer
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ok.... what do you think of this???
driving down the street, a hot guy next to me flirted and of course I flirted back, because I know where this is going : ) it happened before and I think it's funny, besides I wanted to know how long it will take him to realized I have a chair at the passenger side... (i'm gigling now) anyways, he followed me and continued to flirt and finally he saw "the chair" man!!!! he has this embarassing look and took off... ok , so I guess the chair scared the shi* out of him right???
I was at the book store... I transfered to the couch to get comfortable while reading a book... I parked my chair next to the couch so it's not in the way... later...I guess this guy was focusing on me he didn't see the chair... I saw him checking me out and finally came up right in front of me and ask if he could sit next to me and I said "sure" he smiled ... after awhile he started talking to me and asking personal questions... I didn't want to waist my time nor his and I really had to get back to reading.. so I moved my chair closer so he can see it... right there and then he said.. oh I have to go... see!!! the chair scared him huh???
you asked me, what do i think of this?
i think i answered it earlier, and you proved my opinion perfectly.......
most guys just dont want to deal with a woman with a disability..... i said most guys, not all.......
heck, many men trade in their AB wives for younger or different models everyday, hehe
for 30 years ive heard able-body women of all sizes/looks/personalities say they cant find a good man, throw in a disability, well, oddswise......
guys are guys, women can fool themselves into thinking otherwise if you want, or find the 1 in 1000 or is it 5,000?
but dont give up, theres good guys out there. you just gotta find them.
if 2 guys flirted with you, it proves your attractive so you got 1 thing going for you, wink......
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#146321 - 02/16/09 10:47 AM
Re: A question to the women of NM
[Re: corlorde]
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lazer
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ok.... what do you think of this???
I think those guys are stupid. They do not want to talk to you because you get around using a wheelchair? You don't need that BS in your life, for certain. You are not judged by your wheelchair...if you are, they are not people you want in your life. Do you define yourself by your disability? No one will care about that after you are dead. What kind of person are you? Find someone who recognizes your personality and what you can give to others. Be seeing you, ~Corey
oh cmon corey......
u were a big strapping dude before injury, athletic, in rangers? army or something? a active 'mans man' right?
i doubt if you were still like that youd date a limited wheelchair girl who couldnt even go up 2 steps into a house, let alone go hiking with u thru woods or climb a cliff or waterski
be honest....!!
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#146369 - 02/16/09 02:23 PM
Re: A question to the women of NM
[Re: lazer]
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lazer
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try putting this on your chair
http://cgi.ebay.com/She-Devil-Flames-Tai...1QQcmdZViewItem
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#146435 - 02/17/09 08:31 AM
Re: A question to the women of NM
[Re: lazer]
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corlorde
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u were a big strapping dude before injury, athletic, in rangers? army or something? a active 'mans man' right?
i doubt if you were still like that youd date a limited wheelchair girl who couldnt even go up 2 steps into a house, let alone go hiking with u thru woods or climb a cliff or waterski
be honest....!!
Well Dan-o, we can't all be sexual Tyrannosaurus Rex's like you.
http://www.imdb.com/media/rm1697486848/nm0001818[s][/s]
But seriously, and this is the truth, I do not ever recall seeing anyone using a wheelchair prior to my own injury. I don't know why, I'm sure there was someone, somewhere in a wheelchair. I just do not remember it. perhaps I was wrapped up in my own self importance. Then again, I spent a lot of time on military bases and training. So to answer your question, I don't know if I would have dated someone in a wheelchair or not. I do know one thing, I wouldn't have actively seeked a woman out JUST BECAUSE she was using a chair. But I'm sure all the swimsuit models you hang around welcome your advances. Do you still wear that cool hat?
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#146440 - 02/17/09 10:18 AM
Re: A question to the women of NM
[Re: corlorde]
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lazer
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nice evasive answer corey, lol........
you know dang well if u got up and walked today, you wouldnt want to be tied down to a chick in chair
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#146442 - 02/17/09 10:24 AM
Re: A question to the women of NM
[Re: lazer]
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corlorde
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nice evasive answer corey, lol........
you know dang well if u got up and walked today, you wouldnt want to be tied down to a chick in chair
Anyone being burdened by your presence? Anyone unable to fly like a bird because they have the albatross named Lazer wrapped around their neck?
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#146444 - 02/17/09 10:36 AM
Re: A question to the women of NM
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ParaDude
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I was only aware of a couple women in chairs prior to my injury. Like Corey, I never really gave the "date a woman in a chair" idea a first thought, much less a second. Perhaps that in itself says a lot...not sure what...but a lot.
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#146445 - 02/17/09 10:54 AM
Re: A question to the women of NM
[Re: corlorde]
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lazer
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ok.... what do you think of this???
I think those guys are stupid. They do not want to talk to you because you get around using a wheelchair? You don't need that BS in your life, for certain. You are not judged by your wheelchair...if you are, they are not people you want in your life. Do you define yourself by your disability? ~Corey
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nice evasive answer corey, lol........
you know dang well if u got up and walked today, you wouldnt want to be tied down to a chick in chair
Anyone being burdened by your presence? Anyone unable to fly like a bird because they have the albatross named Lazer wrapped around their neck?
corey just wont admit he's most likely one of 'those' guys, hehe
to answer your question corey, im a quad, EVERYONE im around im a burden to in some way, lol
i admit it.......
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#146448 - 02/17/09 12:34 PM
Re: A question to the women of NM
[Re: lazer]
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browneyes
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by the way this is hugzmorekizzz, for some reason it's not letting me sign on so I am now browneyes : )
I have brown eyes anyways and still do love hugs but more kisses : )
First, I just want to say that I didn't intend to be negative in general about AB people for not giving chair user a chance to even get to know them before judging the chair or disability... It's sad but it's LIFE... some are curious some are just plain shallow but hey EVERYONE is entitle to their choice and attractions...
looking back when I was AB .... I was paid to be reside with this girl with CP.. she uses the chair for distances... she is independent..basically they paid me to be home at night just in case she has seizures... she would bring her friends in chair and hang out but they were all teenagers... I did remember having a thought of dating one if they ever bring one of my age but actually I couldn't because I was in a relationship.. but the thought counts right.. he he he... to be honest, I think I gave it a consideration because I've always been a challenger, that's probably why God put me in this situation because he knows I can handle challenges coz I'm stuborn : )
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#146450 - 02/17/09 12:48 PM
Re: A question to the women of NM
[Re: browneyes]
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lazer
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browny, or huggy, you are right that people who dont take the time to get to know someone cant judge that person
your obviously a nice civil girl, and i agree with corey, their loss at the very least not getting to know u more
in regards to u being a AB and possibly CP guy........ remember, theres a big difference between girls n guys feelings/emotion wise
most guys dont give a flying fig 5 minutes after something or about something, where-as a woman it may affect forever......
cant compare guys n girls..... in this point they are not even, emotionally = women win........
brownyhugzzzzzz, u ever try dating sites? theres AB ones and disability ones
try your local craigslist, its free, but local...... be careful tho, most guys are out for 1 thing, to get at your catheter, wink......
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#146454 - 02/17/09 01:13 PM
Re: A question to the women of NM
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ævory
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wait...browneyes, are you male or female? hi, btw
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#146455 - 02/17/09 01:21 PM
Re: A question to the women of NM
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browneyes
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another topic..
ok.... what do you think of this???
I met this guy (AB) last April and the relationship ended November... shortest relationship I've ever had but memorable in a wierd way... Prior to my SCI life , I was with my son's father for over 5 yrs and he stayed with over a yr post SCI and realizing he couldn't handle the chair anymore which is understandable and I knew it was coming coz he prefer the before me but yet he still enjoys being intimate with me no complaint there... come to find out I was pregnant when we broke up and he still wants out... so basically he left me because of the chair..
well, for so many years I stayed away from relationship and besides being a single mom was not easy...
anyways, OMG I'm doing the blah blah blah he he he.. sorry
This AB guy I was with, since day one, we hit it off...gave me his apartment key after couple weeks... he really showed that he cares and my disability the chair does not bother him infact he was so open minded about it... I was really shocked!!! lots of times, he always asked if I need help in showering, changing clothes,cathing, and specially transferring... he loves it when I stay in my chair a lot, he says I look better in the chair rather than the couch...ok this is very personal but I'm going to share it anyways... in the bedroom ,he always tells me, that it seems like he is doing it with an AB... that I should be still and not moving around and not even supposed to enjoy it... I was so shocked!! I thought he would love it that I can still do all this things and even explore for new things... after that, he sat down with me and explained everything, he says he is a devotee... I never really know what it means but when he explained it to me it made sense all that wierd stuff and why he loves to watch me in my chair... man what a turn off!!! so he also admit that if I wasn't in the chair he wouldn't even ask me out.... my blood was boiling!!!
we gave each other space then back again right away,this time I wanted him to see me more as a person not my chair.. everything was great, he loves the fact that he has a girl in chair in his kitchen cooking for him and kissing him while I'm in my chair... if that makes him happy ok but when he asked me to say something while were having sex to kept him up... it turns him way on when I say " I'm such a bad disable girl!!" lol and he has to look at my chair next to the bed to keep him going ... sometimes I pretend I can't move to make him really going but I can't anymore.. I wasn't enjoying it and I can't pretend or do all the things he wants.. what about what I want???? I like being on top or on my knees... he freaked out when I turn and got on my knees to change position without his help... it turned him off lol then that was it... we talked about it, I wanted out and he did too and said, he wanted somebody who is less independent and in bed he wants to do everything.. he wants a girl who will just lay there... so basically, he left me for my disability.. he says not the chair because he likes my chair...
How's that???? oh man now I need a drink lol...
I'm going to delete this post after 1 week coz it's just too personal he he he.. but what do you think of that????
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#146458 - 02/17/09 01:33 PM
Re: A question to the women of NM
[Re: browneyes]
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ævory
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another topic..
ok.... what do you think of this???
I met this guy (AB) last April and the relationship ended November... shortest relationship I've ever had but memorable in a wierd way... Prior to my SCI life , I was with my son's father for over 5 yrs and he stayed with over a yr post SCI and realizing he couldn't handle the chair anymore which is understandable and I knew it was coming coz he prefer the before me but yet he still enjoys being intimate with me no complaint there... come to find out I was pregnant when we broke up and he still wants out... so basically he left me because of the chair..
well, for so many years I stayed away from relationship and besides being a single mom was not easy...
anyways, OMG I'm doing the blah blah blah he he he.. sorry
This AB guy I was with, since day one, we hit it off...gave me his apartment key after couple weeks... he really showed that he cares and my disability the chair does not bother him infact he was so open minded about it... I was really shocked!!! lots of times, he always asked if I need help in showering, changing clothes,cathing, and specially transferring... he loves it when I stay in my chair a lot, he says I look better in the chair rather than the couch...ok this is very personal but I'm going to share it anyways... in the bedroom ,he always tells me, that it seems like he is doing it with an AB... that I should be still and not moving around and not even supposed to enjoy it... I was so shocked!! I thought he would love it that I can still do all this things and even explore for new things... after that, he sat down with me and explained everything, he says he is a devotee... I never really know what it means but when he explained it to me it made sense all that wierd stuff and why he loves to watch me in my chair... man what a turn off!!! so he also admit that if I wasn't in the chair he wouldn't even ask me out.... my blood was boiling!!!
we gave each other space then back again right away,this time I wanted him to see me more as a person not my chair.. everything was great, he loves the fact that he has a girl in chair in his kitchen cooking for him and kissing him while I'm in my chair... if that makes him happy ok but when he asked me to say something while were having sex to kept him up... it turns him way on when I say " I'm such a bad disable girl!!" lol and he has to look at my chair next to the bed to keep him going ... sometimes I pretend I can't move to make him really going but I can't anymore.. I wasn't enjoying it and I can't pretend or do all the things he wants.. what about what I want???? I like being on top or on my knees... he freaked out when I turn and got on my knees to change position without his help... it turned him off lol then that was it... we talked about it, I wanted out and he did too and said, he wanted somebody who is less independent and in bed he wants to do everything.. he wants a girl who will just lay there... so basically, he left me for my disability.. he says not the chair because he likes my chair...
How's that???? oh man now I need a drink lol...
I'm going to delete this post after 1 week coz it's just too personal he he he.. but what do you think of that????
I think yer Lazer, dude, or you are just a playtard and belong hanging around Paradude. LMBO
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#146461 - 02/17/09 01:39 PM
Re: A question to the women of NM
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browneyes
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wait...browneyes, are you male or female? hi, btw
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Hi Aevory : )
I'm a female.. oh let me rephrase that , I'm a bad disable girl" if you read my post above he he he..
No I'm not , he just wants me to say that...
I'm just ME,
I agree to this phrase " Life isn't about finding yourself...Life is about creating yourself "
after SCI T-11, in order to go on and enjoy life, I must become what I want to become and I chose to be happy even being single mom of 9 yr old boy... who says just because your disable you can't have sex... my family was shocked when they found out I was pregnant after over a yr since my injury.. they were like how? hello??? lol
FYI, I'm not new here , I was just gone for a long time and now I'm back wanted to catch up and see who's been behaving : ) and I recognized some people still here.. it's still an interesting group... that's great!!!
I don't expect for you guys to remember me, you never even know I left lol... but glad to be back and contribute some thoughts when I get a chance...
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#146462 - 02/17/09 01:40 PM
Re: A question to the women of NM
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lazer
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another topic..
ok.... what do you think of this???
I met this guy (AB) last April and the relationship ended November... shortest relationship I've ever had but memorable in a wierd way... Prior to my SCI life , I was with my son's father for over 5 yrs and he stayed with over a yr post SCI and realizing he couldn't handle the chair anymore which is understandable and I knew it was coming coz he prefer the before me but yet he still enjoys being intimate with me no complaint there... come to find out I was pregnant when we broke up and he still wants out... so basically he left me because of the chair..
well, for so many years I stayed away from relationship and besides being a single mom was not easy...
anyways, OMG I'm doing the blah blah blah he he he.. sorry
This AB guy I was with, since day one, we hit it off...gave me his apartment key after couple weeks... he really showed that he cares and my disability the chair does not bother him infact he was so open minded about it... I was really shocked!!! lots of times, he always asked if I need help in showering, changing clothes,cathing, and specially transferring... he loves it when I stay in my chair a lot, he says I look better in the chair rather than the couch...ok this is very personal but I'm going to share it anyways... in the bedroom ,he always tells me, that it seems like he is doing it with an AB... that I should be still and not moving around and not even supposed to enjoy it... I was so shocked!! I thought he would love it that I can still do all this things and even explore for new things... after that, he sat down with me and explained everything, he says he is a devotee... I never really know what it means but when he explained it to me it made sense all that wierd stuff and why he loves to watch me in my chair... man what a turn off!!! so he also admit that if I wasn't in the chair he wouldn't even ask me out.... my blood was boiling!!!
we gave each other space then back again right away,this time I wanted him to see me more as a person not my chair.. everything was great, he loves the fact that he has a girl in chair in his kitchen cooking for him and kissing him while I'm in my chair... if that makes him happy ok but when he asked me to say something while were having sex to kept him up... it turns him way on when I say " I'm such a bad disable girl!!" lol and he has to look at my chair next to the bed to keep him going ... sometimes I pretend I can't move to make him really going but I can't anymore.. I wasn't enjoying it and I can't pretend or do all the things he wants.. what about what I want???? I like being on top or on my knees... he freaked out when I turn and got on my knees to change position without his help... it turned him off lol then that was it... we talked about it, I wanted out and he did too and said, he wanted somebody who is less independent and in bed he wants to do everything.. he wants a girl who will just lay there... so basically, he left me for my disability.. he says not the chair because he likes my chair...
How's that???? oh man now I need a drink lol...
I'm going to delete this post after 1 week coz it's just too personal he he he.. but what do you think of that????
buy the guy a blowup doll or tell him the corpses are in graveyard
lol.......... yup, sounds like your 1 dis girl who ACTUALLY had a devo and not a dis girl who CLAIMS she her guy was a devo just cuz he dumped her, hehe
me, im different, id rather have a girl 'like' my disability than be repulsed or sad about it
it might not be a good idea, but if u tell a guy u can get in doggy position, it might help, lol
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#146463 - 02/17/09 01:41 PM
Re: A question to the women of NM
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ævory
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wait...browneyes, are you male or female? hi, btw
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Hi Aevory : )
I'm a female.. oh let me rephrase that , I'm a bad disable girl" if you read my post above he he he..
No I'm not , he just wants me to say that...
I'm just ME,
I agree to this phrase " Life isn't about finding yourself...Life is about creating yourself "
after SCI T-11, in order to go on and enjoy life, I must become what I want to become and I chose to be happy even being single mom of 9 yr old boy... who says just because your disable you can't have sex... my family was shocked when they found out I was pregnant after over a yr since my injury.. they were like how? hello??? lol
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#146477 - 02/17/09 04:11 PM
Re: A question to the women of NM
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browneyes
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For those who asked if I can be with someone who is also dis??? I can honestly say YES, if there is a chemistry going on why not... coz DIS or NOT it's part of nature.... right???
I'll never forget the time when I finally decided to give it a try because I didn't regret it at all in fact it gained experienced for both part... I gave it a consideration simply because I wanted to prove it to myself that it's possible to my account and little that I know, it was even wilder knowing that it will be fun exploring and a learning process is exciting since it's much challenging as long as he get it up which he did... it was my first sexual encounter with a dis guy and we both surprised ourselves in a really good way... it was his first with dis also but he actually admits that even prior to his SCI (para) and post, I was the best ever : ) I believed him coz I felt the same at that moment... I think it has to do a lot with exploring together and unexpected enjoyable intimacy is actually happening... you just kinda savor the moment : ) ok for instance, as my part it's the first that I am more in control kinda...
on top ... everything is at once and that's the greatest : ) he has all access infront of him and under me , his hands and his mouth are constantly busy and that drives me wild...humpin and grinding is like an art of dance lol OMG why am I telling you guys this... this is for the girls by the way : ) yes, you should be able to be on top, Dis partner or Not!!! don't ever limit yourself, if you don't try it ,you'll never know...and not just being top... side ways .. whatever ways...
I'm just thankful that I have a lot of hips movements and my balance is good.. I would have him hold on to my waist and guide my body with my flow as I am on top... if he wants my hands freely to do whatever that is good in his sight... if you know what I mean... I'm not afraid to lean back if I want him to nibble on my tummy either : )
I turn around facing away from him so he can be in control this time by grabbing my buns forward backward side to side , my hands pushing the matress to have momentum or.... nahhhhh
I better stop... that's enough info LOL, now I feel like I'm a bad girl : ) it's good to be bad sometimes with someone you are attracted to...
I have this tingling sensations everywhere below my injury and it had gotten stronger and it actually helps me feel... the more I get excited I feel it more, I can't compare it to a normal feelings of course but I have learned to comprehend and that's the only way I can enjoy it for the most part... the tingling can be annoying sometimes but I guess all those nerves are doing something....
I JUST WANT TO SAY TO THE GUYS Hey... don't be afraid, Dis girls can do it too.. we can be "HOT" as much as AB girls ...
Ok that's all!!!!
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#146494 - 02/18/09 08:12 AM
Re: A question to the women of NM
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corlorde
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you know dang well if u got up and walked today, you wouldnt want to be tied down to a chick in chair
I read the thread from beginning to end again, and have just one more comment before I bow out to Dan's wisdom. I'm still all those things you mentioned. I'm still a "big guy, ex this and that" for certain. However. I try not to "what if" things. For example, if you had a vagina, we would call you Dannie, ha. Anyway, if I started walking tomorrow, I wouldn't leave my gimp friends behind. I'm an asshole, but I've grown to love the people here, disagreeable or not. Could I right now head to the bar and "pick up chicks"? Yes. Did I do that before my injury? You bet. However, life is about learning and growing. Given YOUR "logic", you should never be with another AB woman again, should you? You are such a burden, any woman would want something "better than" a quad, such as yourself. Again, your logic.
Anyway, best of luck with your sexual conquests!
fyi: No one is "tying me down" so I do not understand what you mean. I could push people down trails, go camping, take someone into the water, if I was half the man I was physically 12 years ago.
Be seeing you,
~Corey
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#146543 - 02/18/09 02:59 PM
Re: A question to the women of NM
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ævory
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You know there are different strokes for different folks, Lazer. I had a man I nearly married and I was told by all his family that he was the ultimate couch potato...when we got to Albuquerque....he got interested in taking the bus with me and tooling around to do this and that JUST because he thought it cool to be able to help me...to push me and load my chair on the bus, etc. It made him feel good to think of doing that. So, my situation got him off his keester. However.......lol, that was all in theory because I never used my chair. LMBO>>>>he told me this was his 'headtrip and all of how it would go down when we got settled there'.
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#146562 - 02/18/09 11:27 PM
Re: A question to the women of NM
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browneyes
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As for me, to be with someone... who is AB or Dis, whoever make me feel whole... I just want someone to be there WITH me, not in front of me, not behind me, but by my side , taking the same path no matter what....
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#147303 - 03/02/09 07:06 AM
Re: A question to the women of NM
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IndiAnna
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browneyes,
Was your old user name Butterfly or close to it? I am thinking you are the same lady who had gotten bladder augmentation then after that you stopped coming around?
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#147357 - 03/03/09 12:35 AM
Re: A question to the women of NM
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browneyes
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Wow IndiAnna you got good memories : ) yes , I was Btrflykizz and after I had my bladder augmentation , I was free like a bird : ) it worked for me and I was more out and about then I moved... time just flies!!! I wasn't able to log in as Btrflykizz so I became HugzNkizzz and to make the long story short I am now browneyes : ) as I explained in my come back but I didn't think anyone would remember me anyways lol...
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#147367 - 03/03/09 11:16 AM
Re: A question to the women of NM
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IndiAnna
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Oh I remember you because you were miserable like me before i had my bladder augmentation. Then like you said, you were set free as a bird and off you went. LOL
Glad to see you back here and that you have been having a good time while you were away.
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#148544 - 03/17/09 07:15 PM
Re: A question to the women of NM
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arc222
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I'm convinced that sexy is as sexy does. In other words, it's really more about what's going on in a woman's head. I know a woman who has been a quad for 10 years. She was hell on wheels before she was forced to depend on wheels to get around. Her accident and rehab were a drag, but she barely missed a beat. With incredible determination and the help of a devoted husband and excellent pca's she has managed to maintain unbelievable muscle tone. But beyond the physical, she exudes "sex appeal" because she is emotionally centered and self-assured. I say we should spend less time worrying about what others think and more time focusing on what we love about OURSELVES.
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#148619 - 03/18/09 02:07 PM
Re: A question to the women of NM
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browneyes
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I still think I'm sexy in my own ways : ) I feel sexy when I think sexy therefor I look sexy ... regardless with my disability... I don't roll around with mini skirts to feel sexy... I want to be sexy to the person I am close with... it's a private thing for me... if he accepted my disability then he deserves to see my sexy side of me instead of giving up my self confidence...
Everytime I roll into Victoria Secret or Fredericks of Hollywood to shop for lingerie, I swear women there just have that look, I can't read their minds but they have a surprise looks...
in my mind..I say "Yeah! girls in chairs can be sexy too okkkkkkkkkkkk "LOL
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#150043 - 04/08/09 10:21 PM
Re: A question to the women of NM
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tippyxx
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being that i've been able to be with both AB and DIS girls sexually, if i became total AB tonight, i would never discount DIS girls. ever. when i was only AB, i knew no DIS females.
it all comes down to this for me: how natural, how honest, how horney, how sexual, and how naturally giving/taking is she.
there are females who are sexual (this is a public service message)who buy lingerie, make-up, candles, incense, toys, music, food, alcohol, drugs, get hotels, prepare their own places all about sex.
a guy thinks, 'f uckin A WOW!'
then, after hookin up, a guy realises,'such a sexually driven women, what a really great girl.' he tries a position he likes, some music he's into, accidentally bumps a candle over or just wants to do his thing after 5 hours of hers. he pours himself a stiff whiskey after drinking her mango tangerine vodka kahlua pink lemonade drinks, he's confronted with her wiggin out because it has interrupted her total me expression of me, myself and i. this bitch is nothing more than i've never gotten past 8th grade mentality, every guy must be my dad and give, give, give, and...no one's ever told me i'm not all that.
more later.
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#150171 - 04/10/09 01:04 PM
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ævory
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am holding my breath
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#150179 - 04/10/09 03:25 PM
Re: A question to the women of NM
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Madspawn
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Please come up for air
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#165284 - 10/05/09 12:17 AM
Re: A question to the women of NM
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browneyes
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oops.. late is better than never : )
IndiaAnna... Yup it's me... was butterflykisses but for whatever reason I couldn't use that user name... so I had to make up one... I have brown eyes so it suits me ...
and yeah, after my bladder augmentation , I was free like a butterfly... was out and about : ) which was good... the surgery went super... no more problem : )
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