#41196 - 06/17/06 02:27 AM
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cass
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the analogy is...well...stupid, pd. sorry. if you were in my lit class, i'd throw ya out
the hitler thing was even stranger...like the war had anything to do with dis? but, btw, had he won (which he almost did) likely you and i wouldn't be here having this discussion.
sometimes i just don't think you think through what you say. but we're still friends heh?
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#41200 - 06/17/06 12:19 PM
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You remember news accounts of Robert Latimer saying what he did was compassionate toward his daughter and a judge who sentenced in agreement. The murder of RLs daughter was not one of viciousness, violence, or greed, it was a murder that was done out of compassion, you might not agree with it but the fact remains, RL killed his daughter thinking he was doing the right thing.
He is not like other murderers, we as a society know that if he was ever to be released he would not reoffend.
Murders are usually called something. Murder for money, murder for revenge, murder for pleasure, murder for , like it or not, this murder was committed and the motive was compassion. No one can dispute that.
Personally, after reading a little bit more about the state of RLs daughter, I actually do think it was a mercy killing...but heh, that's just me.
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#41201 - 06/18/06 01:51 AM
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cass
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Originally posted by ParaDude: Yeah what a horrible world it would be if disabilities were eliminated from this planet.
Like I said before, women get abortions for all sorts of reasons, claiming it is their right to do so, so having an abortion because the child is going to be disabled seems to be her right as well.
As for killing children who are already born? Well obviously I don't agree with that. how does this match up with what you have said here?
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#41204 - 06/18/06 12:22 PM
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I must infer PD that you are in complete agreement with the acquital of Lorena Bobbit for cutting off her husband's penis, because it is pretty obvious she would never do that again! No it is not obvious. He had it re-attached and has gone on to a rather lucrative career in the porn industry.
The Judge sentence RL to life in prison. Since the judge knows a lot more about this case than you or I will bow to his wisdom and say that RL got what he deserved. In this particular case you should be saying that justice was served, and that society DID NOT fail the daughter. So why are you bringing it up as if it was some travesty of justice?
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#41205 - 06/18/06 01:10 PM
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the problem i see with NDY is that they highlight cases from one end of the spectrum - terri schiavo, infanticide etc. - as rationale for their opposition to ALL forms of assisted suicide/euthanasia including (and here is where i have the biggest problem w/ their thinking) the right for MENTALLY COMPETENT adults to make their own end-of-life decisions.
two completely different issues, really.
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#41206 - 06/18/06 04:29 PM
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Originally posted by StarlightAngel: the problem i see with NDY is that they highlight cases from one end of the spectrum - terri schiavo, infanticide etc. - as rationale for their opposition to ALL forms of assisted suicide/euthanasia including (and here is where i have the biggest problem w/ their thinking) the right for MENTALLY COMPETENT adults to make their own end-of-life decisions.
two completely different issues, really. Agreed. The NDY people seem to think that if a person wants to check out early then they can't be in their right mind. I would imagine that if and when I decide to leave this world that it will be the saniest decision I ever make...and the one thought out the longest.
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#41208 - 06/18/06 07:32 PM
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Here's an example of a similar kind------ It is illegal to use heroin. It is illegal for competent adults to use it. It is illegal for children to use it. It is illegal for people who have been found incompetent. Competence isn't the issue. Heroin is simply illegal. Yeah and you and the government should not be able to tell me or anyone else what they wish to put into their bodies. If I want to be a crack addict, I should have every right to be one, just so long as I don't hurt anyone in the process.
When you think about it, it isn't illegal to use drugs, it is simply illegal to have them on your person or to sell them. Once a person has used a drug and they are at home not causing any trouble, they wouldn't be charged with a crime.
Euthanasia is simply illegal and in the opinion of NDY - it should be. No it is not, Euthanasia is performed daily in paliative care hospitals, whether you think it is a good thing or not.
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#41209 - 06/18/06 07:42 PM
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Originally posted by Xuxan: No, NDY doesn't consider competence - one way or the other. They simply consider that at this point in time permitting euthanasia on account of disability is wrong. It is unilaterally considered wrong - whether you are competent or not.
Here's an example of a similar kind------ It is illegal to use heroin. It is illegal for competent adults to use it. It is illegal for children to use it. It is illegal for people who have been found incompetent. Competence isn't the issue. Heroin is simply illegal.
Euthanasia is simply illegal and in the opinion of NDY - it should be. there are people who will argue that recreational drug use in moderation should not be illegal either, but that's a whole different issue.
if allowing assisted suicide on account of disability/disease is "wrong", then what do you say in response to a person who is not lacking in personal or environmental resources, but simply has had enough?
[edited to add - hi pd! ]
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#41211 - 06/18/06 08:24 PM
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Originally posted by Xuxan: NDY would say - the edit against euthansia is universal - no exceptions. There is no way to ethically and decidedly determine who would be those candidates who came to their decision without being pushed into that decision by others (society included.)
and the result is that all are barred FROM the decision by others, it just depends on WHICH others make the rules (be it NDY or george bush).
so, in other words the response would be, "sorry honey, you're screwed".
incidentally, if you're so against society imposing its values on PWDs why aren't you equally against NDY imposing their values on me?
i'd write more, but my butt hurts.
'night xu & pd
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#41213 - 06/18/06 08:34 PM
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Originally posted by Xuxan: Everyone, individually or organizationally has to make decisions based on the information they have at hand. NDY has made its decision by balancing the indpendence to make any choice you want versus a choice you feel is the only choice you have.
And yes, as much as it grieves me to say it, it does mean exactly as you say, "sorry honey, you are screwed." No she isn't. If I was Karen's friend (and lived in her neighborhood), and if I knew she had made the decision, carefully and with much thought, I would help her.
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#41215 - 06/18/06 11:50 PM
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Well Xuxan, we will have to agree to disagree. Like I said before, Euthanasia is happening everyday in hospitals, it is done by doctors and it is done without penalty. It's like the jaywalking law, 99 times out of 100 you can get away with it, it is only when someone complains or some cop is in a foul mood that it is ticketed.
Euthanasia is done with compassion and it affords those who are "suffering" to leave this world with dignity and with choice...yes choice. I have been around that sort of thing a lot, and I've talked with the nurses who follow the doctors order and administer the lethal dose of morphine. These people are not doing anything wrong, and I for one applaud them their courage.
From what I understand of NYD it is an organization that if able, would insist that these people who are suffering be forced to continue their suffering until they finally expire, their last breath being one while in extreme pain.
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#41217 - 06/19/06 12:19 AM
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Originally posted by Xuxan: No, you don't understand.
If a person is extreme pain - give them pain killers. If the level of pain killers required to kill pain results in death - as long as a person knowledgeably made that choice - it is their choice to make. I do understand, I am glad you said that. I would be interested to know if your personal thoughts on this would be echoed by the other folks at NDY.
I also assume you are talking about physical pain, and would add that some people suffer from other types of pain for which there is no cure, those people also deserve a chance to die with dignity, it is afterall, "their choice to make".
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#41219 - 06/19/06 01:27 AM
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cass
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pd, you paint NDY as a collective with a single purpose. it isn't. except for the belief euthanasia should remain illegal as long as there is a bias in society against dis ppl; i.e. "understanding" why dis ppl would want to die. i think you fail to acknowledge this.
yes, we have curbcuts, dis parking, etc. but you fail to see many of the ppl you are attacking advocated for that as well. more importantly, you seemingly are not aware of the bioethics trend which is growing.
NDY is not against choice. it is against choice in THIS environment. i see many emails back and forth. NDY is comprised of many individual viewpoints. TRUE end of life choices are not opposed, but not possible given the perceived "suffering" of pwd. at least, under the law. the law is the key. it is not illegal to commit suicide (in the u.s.). it is illegal to commit murder. inbetween is a gray area.
that said, helping a friend to die and killing a child share no common ground.
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#41220 - 06/19/06 02:44 AM
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ParaDude
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Originally posted by cass: pd, you paint NDY as a collective with a single purpose. it isn't. except for the belief euthanasia should remain illegal as long as there is a bias in society against dis ppl; i.e. "understanding" why dis ppl would want to die. i think you fail to acknowledge this.
yes, we have curbcuts, dis parking, etc. but you fail to see many of the ppl you are attacking advocated for that as well. more importantly, you seemingly are not aware of the bioethics trend which is growing.
NDY is not against choice. it is against choice in THIS environment. i see many emails back and forth. NDY is comprised of many individual viewpoints. TRUE end of life choices are not opposed, but not possible given the perceived "suffering" of pwd. at least, under the law. the law is the key. it is not illegal to commit suicide (in the u.s.). it is illegal to commit murder. inbetween is a gray area.
that said, helping a friend to die and killing a child share no common ground. So as long as there is a bias against people with disabilities euthanasia is not an option for us. I think that is pretty pathetic, ABs are allowed the CHOICE yet because we are disabled we are seemily not able to make the same choice an AB person does?
Xuxan - Many times the patients are euthanized under the illusion that it is for pain. The patient is given there morphine every 4 hours or so whether they request it or not. Many are simply unable to communicate any longer so the choice is made for them.
This fact is perfectly acceptable to the family members, in fact, it is often encouraged.
Bottom line for me is that I don't believe society has an urge to elliminate us, I see society as trying to make our lives as workable as possible.
This is not Nazi Germany! Trying to make people believe it is so is imho akin to fearmongering.
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#41221 - 06/19/06 03:23 AM
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cass
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euthanasia is not presently legal in u.s. (except oregon) for ABs either pd. i never said it should be for them and not dis.
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