#26912 - 07/13/06 04:07 PM
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knitwit
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I agree Xuxan. What about families that aren't silly spenders? Families paying daycare, helping to support elderly parents, with student loans.... Not all families with money problems got there shopping and eating takeout off of paper plates.
I've enjoyed the series, turns out our family isn't living as lean as we thought we were. It pointed out where we can cut back a bit, not nearly as much as the families on the show but every little bit counts.
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#26913 - 07/13/06 04:19 PM
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ParaDude
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I was laughing about this yesterday. Watching Oprah lecture on how to budget ones finances is kinda like watching Oprah lecture on what it is like to be a Chinese person living in the US.
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#26914 - 07/13/06 05:44 PM
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kimmyface
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LOL very funny PD!
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#26915 - 07/13/06 05:54 PM
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AL_IN_TX
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Originally posted by Xuxan: I'm watching this is hopes of getting clues how to cut my bottom line. What I am finding that is that I have my bottome line cut about as close as it can be.
These people spending $700 a week eating out - PLEASE - I can't cut that from my budget - I rarely eat out unless it is a mystery shop I am getting reinmbursed for.
Teddy did watch as the tshirts in the teenager's closet got counted - he got it cause he said - I can't help it! I said oh yes you can help it.
So far the most important thing I learned I learned too late. Don't close your credit cards when you pay them off. Just don't use them. It looks good to have a credit card with a zero balance. When you get the next one down to zero - then close that one off you have had down to zero for awhile.
But not too late I learned, that if you maintain perfect credit with a card for two years - you have maxed out the benefit it will do for your credit. So if you need to improve the score - after 2 years close it and get a new one and the 2 years starts all over again with the new card.
I'm all for Oprah's Debt Diet, but I wish she had people on who actually were having a hard time making ends meet because their incomes were low - not just becauee they were completely irresponsible with money. Several years ago I had newlywed neighbors that ate all meals out. Thier monthly cc bill for food was over 2k per month(1990 or so money). Still hard to believe a couple would spend this much eating out.
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#26916 - 07/13/06 07:17 PM
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katka
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Originally posted by ParaDude: I was laughing about this yesterday. Watching Oprah lecture on how to budget ones finances is kinda like watching Oprah lecture on what it is like to be a Chinese person living in the US. Oprah wasn't always rich remember.
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#26917 - 07/13/06 08:15 PM
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ParaDude
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Originally posted by katka: Originally posted by ParaDude: I was laughing about this yesterday. Watching Oprah lecture on how to budget ones finances is kinda like watching Oprah lecture on what it is like to be a Chinese person living in the US. Oprah wasn't always rich remember. Ohhhh...and I guess her frugal monthly budget and spending habits made her the woman she is today. :rolleyes:
She spends as much money on clothing in a month as most of us make in a year...then pops up and trys to lecture people who make less that 40k a year on how to survive...lol...it's a laugh.
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#26918 - 07/13/06 08:30 PM
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Paulwa_dup1
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Some of the most wealthy people live like paupers. Crazy, huh? They sweat over spending a penny. The people who love money the most can't really enjoy it. People who have lots of money and couldn't care less about it get everything they want but don't enjoy it either. Most of their lives are totally miserable. I think some who share their wealth with the less fortunate are probably the happiest. Wasn't there a multi billionaire who just gave away most of his wealth the other day to the less fortunate. Man I'll bet he is a happy at peace with himself guy. I am happy with what I have but I would probably be happier if I tried to share more with those who have less. Trouble is most people have more than I've got! Oprah just tryin ta help, y'all! Paul
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#26919 - 07/13/06 08:38 PM
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katka
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Originally posted by ParaDude: Originally posted by katka: Originally posted by ParaDude: I was laughing about this yesterday. Watching Oprah lecture on how to budget ones finances is kinda like watching Oprah lecture on what it is like to be a Chinese person living in the US. Oprah wasn't always rich remember. Ohhhh...and I guess her frugal monthly budget and spending habits made her the woman she is today. :rolleyes:
She spends as much money on clothing in a month as most of us make in a year...then pops up and trys to lecture people who make less that 40k a year on how to survive...lol...it's a laugh. I'm just saying she wasn't always rich, I realise she's rolling in it now. She came from nothing and earned her money working hard, so she deserves it. I didn't get the impression she was lecturing people on how they spent their money, to me it was making them realise they were were going to be bankrupt sooner than later if they didn't face reality.
As is her way, she chooses topics that seem important to the general public and undoubtly she got letters from people telling her they felt out of control with money. Feel free to continue to roll your eyes at me.
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#26920 - 07/13/06 09:03 PM
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flicka
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Originally posted by Paulwa: People who have lots of money and couldn't care less about it get everything they want but don't enjoy it either. Most of their lives are totally miserable. I think some who share their wealth with the less fortunate are probably the happiest. Wasn't there a multi billionaire who just gave away most of his wealth the other day to the less fortunate. Man I'll bet he is a happy at peace with himself guy.
I heard that Warren Buffet's late wife always wanted to do altruistic endeavors to a great extent and when she died in 04, he began to understand what she was talking about.
Oprah is a star. She's good at what she does and people tune in to what she is... Damn straight in my book.
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#26921 - 07/13/06 09:29 PM
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ParaDude
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Originally posted by katka: Originally posted by ParaDude: Originally posted by katka: quote: Originally posted by ParaDude: I was laughing about this yesterday. Watching Oprah lecture on how to budget ones finances is kinda like watching Oprah lecture on what it is like to be a Chinese person living in the US. Oprah wasn't always rich remember. Ohhhh...and I guess her frugal monthly budget and spending habits made her the woman she is today. :rolleyes:
She spends as much money on clothing in a month as most of us make in a year...then pops up and trys to lecture people who make less that 40k a year on how to survive...lol...it's a laugh. I'm just saying she wasn't always rich, I realise she's rolling in it now. She came from nothing and earned her money working hard, so she deserves it. I didn't get the impression she was lecturing people on how they spent their money, to me it was making them realise they were were going to be bankrupt sooner than later if they didn't face reality.
As is her way, she chooses topics that seem important to the general public and undoubtly she got letters from people telling her they felt out of control with money. Feel free to continue to roll your eyes at me. Heh...I'm not saying she doesn't deserve it, she has worked hard for her money. I'm just saying, having a show dedicated to lecturing us on how to save money by cutting back is rather ludicrous.
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#26923 - 07/13/06 11:28 PM
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ParaDude
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Originally posted by Xuxan: She doesn't lecture anyone about the way they spend money. She brings on experts on financial management and matches them to people in trouble and then she does what she does best - she makes it into entertainment. I watched a good portion of the show...she was doing more than just sitting back letting the "experts" lecture, she was more than a silent watcher, she spoke up time and time and time again offering advice on how to "cutback" and "spend smart" and etc etc etc etc.
Stay tuned to next weeks show when Oprah talks about how tough it is to be a White Man living in Harlem.
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#26924 - 07/13/06 11:36 PM
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Wheelchair_diva
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Two people who should be out of the media are Oprah and Dr. Phil. What is so helpful about their preaching anyway?
I just needed to say that, though nobody cares.
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#26926 - 07/14/06 06:36 PM
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katka
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That's why every remote has a channel changer, don't like the show or topic, it's a simple click.
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#26927 - 07/14/06 06:43 PM
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candra
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Believe it or not, I've never seen the Oprah show. I just don't do TV. I heard Dr. Phil on the radio once and he didn't really impress me. I can't figure out why so many folks are gaga over him.
As for the "debt diet" (I had to google that because I hadn't a clue as to what you all were talking about); it seems that some of the folks on it have bigger issues than money (one in particular seems to have some major marital problems). But there is some good advice from the financial experts there. Maybe it will help some people.
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#26928 - 07/14/06 06:59 PM
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johnnyquad
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Originally posted by katka: That's why every remote has a channel changer, don't like the show or topic, it's a simple click. it's a good thing too. If all I had to choose from was the Oprah show, I'd have to wonder what special contest in Hell I'd won to deserve this.
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#26929 - 07/14/06 07:26 PM
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johnnyquad
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Originally posted by candra: Believe it or not, I've never seen the Oprah show. I just don't do TV.
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#26931 - 07/14/06 07:36 PM
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johnnyquad
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Originally posted by ParaDude: Stay tuned to next weeks show when Oprah talks about how tough it is to be a White Man living in Harlem.  [/QB] Oprah the omniscient.
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#26932 - 07/17/06 05:03 PM
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paradocs
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The impression I got from the show was that it was basically a shill for the banks and credit card companies -- how to borrow money "wisely" so you can qualify to borrow more so you can stay in debt for the rest of your life.
I prefer Dave Ramsey's approach: get out of debt and stay that way by not borrowing. As he has pointed out repeatedly, the Bible says that the borrower is slave to the lender. Maybe that is why one major credit card company calls itself MasterCard.
Anyone wanting to hear Dave Ramsey's advice can get information on a nearby radio station by going to
http://www.daveramsey.com
The show is aired over about 300 radio stations across the country, Sirius and XM satellite, and also available free as a webcast. There were a number of horror stories on the tactics lenders use on the show today.
I was a bit reluctant to try Dave's approach until I added up what I was paying out in interest to the bloodsuckers every month and decided there were better things I could do with my money than lining their pockets.
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