A good spicing up wouldnt hurt you any Greggie. Go do what you condem others for. Get out and socialise, have a few drinks, put a little Joan on the jukebox. Push yourself and someone might just find you to be someone they can stomach.
I do enjoy life. I don't need to hang out in bars, until I come across someone who can "stomach" me. Been there, done that and not for me anymore. In between a great job, great kids and the odd adventure I am getting the most out of life that I can manage. I'm not in to the whole super gimp thing.