My boyfriend and I have been dating for over a year. He has been a complete C5/6 quad for 21 years. He has no movement/feeling from the chest down. He has some movement in his arms but not his hands. We believe sex is possible for us, and have read many places where quads at his level have been successful with traditional intercourse. But nowhere can we find SPECIFICS on what actually works BEST for others... Positions mainly. ANY help will be greatly appreciated.
if ur still around, try getting into position like ud do doggy style w an AB man, but w ur man laying on the bed leggs spread. then back urself up to him and slip ur leggs under his( where his knees bend) and back up summore. u may need to spread ur leggs pretty far, but it issss sex so.. spread em baby! lol works pretty well for hubby and i and its a lot less stress on the hips for me. gl 
