so i think baton twirling is to sissy for me and here comes your homo comment. thats your pov, not mine. but we can run with it if care to, u twisted it in that direction.
...and the graveyard spanking and 'of age' comments? trolls at NM have gone this queer-bashing direction always. it's nothing that a LGBT SCIed person needs to have hit them in the face if and when they first reach out for support.
why do you think that a near-decade old story is going to FINALLY become embarrassing? you think what i did with a consenting adult was wrong and that i should read mentions of it as an insult, that is obvious. i don't care what you think about it. i do care what impression you create for someone who might be reading and deciding whether or not it's safe to post.
...and the graveyard spanking and 'of age' comments? trolls at NM have gone this queer-bashing direction always. it's nothing that a LGBT SCIed person needs to have hit them in the face if and when they first reach out for support.
why do you think that a near-decade old story is going to FINALLY become embarrassing? you think what i did with a consenting adult was wrong and that i should read mentions of it as an insult, that is obvious. i don't care what you think about it. i do care what impression you create for someone who might be reading and deciding whether or not it's safe to post.
This is your story, not mine. What exactly was u reaching out for by throwing it on the net?
DUH! i was demonstrating that no one had me by the short hairs by hanging that story over my head. it seemed to work pretty well too. neither joyt or wabi have ever threatened me since. both joyt and wabi sent me threatening PM's authoring the same 'graveyard' story you referenced. it was an allegation laden, trumped up, insulting, fictional version of something i told joyt privately when she was pretending to be trustworthy.
homophobia was at the root of why wabi and joy thought their threats to 'splash it around' would work and the persist mention of it is the same. it's is ridiculous.
DUH! i was demonstrating that no one had me by the short hairs by hanging that story over my head. it seemed to work pretty well too. neither joyt or wabi have ever threatened me since. both joyt and wabi sent me threatening PM's authoring the same 'graveyard' story you referenced. it was an allegation laden, trumped up, insulting, fictional version of something i told joyt privately when she was pretending to be trustworthy.
homophobia was at the root of why wabi and joy thought their threats to 'splash it around' would work and the persist mention of it is the same. it's is ridiculous.
DUH..my point was...u put it on the net, pm or email. Things u wamt kept hush hush...well hell yeah, net it. lol
does not being ashamed or embarrassed translate to anything you can connect with personally?
i didn't broadcast it because it wasn't anyone's business, like most sex that adults have. i never assumed that using a wheelchair precluded children's involvement at NM.
lol? you really think anyone thinks this is funny...still...really?
maybe you are an example of a child's involvement at NM?
does not being ashamed or embarrassed translate to anything you can connect with personally?
i didn't broadcast it because it wasn't anyone's business, like most sex that adults have. i never assumed that using a wheelchair precluded children's involvement at NM.
lol? you really think anyone thinks this is funny...still...really?
maybe you are an example of a child's involvement at NM?
oh but u did broadcast it. how else would i know about it?
i posted the threats to defuse them. it worked. i eventually shared the true details to demonstrate how fvcked-up wabi's and joy's were/are. it worked. wabi apologized. i'm fine with him.
again, my point was, if its a secret u dont want aired r used against u....DUH bring to the net..in any form. get what i'm sayin? Yeah you trusted, you got burned(no pun lol), you learned. If its not on here, no defuse, end of story.
