...thats to sissy for me.

you have a simple choice amber, apologize or leave

...and the graveyard spanking and 'of age' comments? trolls at NM have gone this queer-bashing direction always. it's nothing that a LGBT SCIed person needs to have hit them in the face if and when they first reach out for support.

why do you think that a near-decade old story is going to FINALLY become embarrassing? you think what i did with a consenting adult was wrong and that i should read mentions of it as an insult, that is obvious. i don't care what you think about it. i do care what impression you create for someone who might be reading and deciding whether or not it's safe to post.

I do? who said that...u? lol

DUH! i was demonstrating that no one had me by the short hairs by hanging that story over my head. it seemed to work pretty well too. neither joyt or wabi have ever threatened me since. both joyt and wabi sent me threatening PM's authoring the same 'graveyard' story you referenced. it was an allegation laden, trumped up, insulting, fictional version of something i told joyt privately when she was pretending to be trustworthy.

homophobia was at the root of why wabi and joy thought their threats to 'splash it around' would work and the persist mention of it is the same. it's is ridiculous.

does not being ashamed or embarrassed translate to anything you can connect with personally?

i didn't broadcast it because it wasn't anyone's business, like most sex that adults have. i never assumed that using a wheelchair precluded children's involvement at NM.

lol? you really think anyone thinks this is funny...still...really?

maybe you are an example of a child's involvement at NM?

you have a simple choice amber, apologize or leave

Some fukin supporative group of "friends". It just proves the phoney support offered almost always has nothing to do with actual concern for the other person but instead is just offered as a way to make the originator feel good about themself.

what's your problem with me? and why the fvck do you care what i video in my backyard, girlie or not? here's a suggestion: when i post links for FRIENDS to watch, how 'bout you skip 'em. they're not for dipshits who would turn ANY content into fodder for insults. and bringing up the graveyard and 'age' bullsh1t was as fvcked as wabi and joy's tactics. if you don't want to be seen as a troll or an ass, don't act like one.