OMG... u guys friggin crack me up. Girl, I am a T12 complete and I still feel sex but it wasnt always that way. From what I understand the nervous system of the female reproductive system run up and connect with spinal cord at T10... so even tho I cant feel my clit I get some crazy orgasms still. I dunno about the position thing but practice makes perfect so figure out what u like and go for it!
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