I use a power chair because dystrophy. My otherwise loving and devoted boyfriend (AB = able bodied) has had an affair citing his loss of sexual attraction to me, and fears of on going celibacy. He wants to keep our relationship as long as he can have sex with ABs outside of it. I think this is incompatible with the love I want and deserve and I am just trying to put the flames out in my hair and take the knife out of my heart. Would love reactions from the community out there about this. Does anybody think this is reasonable? Who would allow it? Thanks.
Registered: 04/03/09
Posts: 926
Loc: los angeles ish
thats a big hell no over here girl.. tell him to go fck his mother if he wants an AB female so badly, ugh what an ass.. soda said it : u deserve better! eff that tool! ugh stab stab stab
Registered: 02/18/11
Posts: 14
Loc: Melbourne, Australia
here is what u do.....find a new (disabled boyfriend) have crazy orgasmic sex that has u screaming for more, video tape it. and send it to this jerk face and say "yeah your right our sex life was pretty pathetic"
here is what u do.....find a new (disabled boyfriend) have crazy orgasmic sex that has u screaming for more, video tape it. and send it to this jerk face and say "yeah your right our sex life was pretty pathetic"
Thanks everyone. It seems we're all in agreement here. I wonder how many people out there are living such an arrangement and just too ashamed to admit it here. Well at least I know I'm not crAzy! Thanks so much for the reality check
i kept myself out of this because it's clear what you want. it's possible to think such arrangements are no big deal, but it takes a lot of open communication.
i kept myself out of this because it's clear what you want. it's possible to think such arrangements are no big deal, but it takes a lot of open communication.
