#195479 - 11/17/10 06:07 PM
Re: let's Speculate About Emma.
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soda
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Last year I was involved in one of these type of "relationships". Was she to blame or was I? Depends on whose side you listen to.
"We" both found the only way to make it stop was to stop ALL communication. Don't even open/read emails or texts, just delete them. Be polite on the phone, say your busy and hang up. Getting angry just fuels the frustration. Avoid common areas you both might frequent.
For us it took a few months but eventually people move on.
*you're--you too brutus?
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#195480 - 11/17/10 06:16 PM
Re: let's Speculate About Emma.
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soda
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no stalking!
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#195566 - 11/22/10 10:04 AM
Re: let's Speculate About Emma.
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corlorde
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Unfortunatley, my cyber harassment Via email is still going on. Sadly, nothing works 
The best thing to do in my experience, is to not respond. So, that is what I do. I'm hopeful it will end at some point. :)..
To be left alone, and all of that. Because, I'm not trying to interfer in anyone's life and I really want to be left alone, but I guess it is not meant to be at this point, but I am hopeful! Anger doesn't work, responding and pleading doesn't work, nothing does except, accepting that there are people in this world who cannot for whatever reason, move on and let go.
Not only is it sad, it is Pathetic. I think some people are pathetic by nature. I am no longer going to give in. 
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#195572 - 11/22/10 10:28 AM
Re: let's Speculate About Emma.
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corlorde
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See what I mean, it never ends (and I have thousands of such emails) It is cyber harassment, no matter how you look at it:
No matter how much you think it, it is not going to be real. I have no desire for you, I have no attraction for you and I sure as hell do not love you.
I see that even responding here just continues this whole sick thing you have going on. You were normal for what three days? When you told me years ago, that you were every womans nightmare I had not a clue.
so in order for this to be DONE for the last time, I bid you farewell and the best of everything. I have no anger towards you, in fact I have nothing towards you. You do not interest me in any way.
Enjoy the holidays.
This stupidity has lasted longer than should have even been thought of.
Edited by corlorde (11/22/10 10:28 AM)
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#195573 - 11/22/10 10:48 AM
Re: let's Speculate About Emma.
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corlorde
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Yeah, shit is getting weird and like I said, the only thing that works is not responding. So, given that, I won't be posting here any longer..at least until the weirdness stops. At the end of the day, asking someone to stop emailing you, and they do not, equals cyber harassment and/or bullying (which I want no part of).
I'm not doing that...nope.
Be seeing you
~Corey
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#195613 - 11/22/10 03:02 PM
Re: let's Speculate About Emma.
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soda
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send one of her e-ms to your junk-mail folder and the rest will automatically follow. you will never have to read another.
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#195628 - 11/22/10 03:49 PM
Re: let's Speculate About Emma.
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Skylark
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I blocked wabi's emails from my yahoo mail (easy to do), and when he wouldn't stop emailing at work, I alerted the NMCI authorities, and they blocked all emails from his address. When he'd call here at work, I'd just hang up -- and simply because he HAD to have the last word on any "debate" on these boards, and had to bully me into "agreeing" with him.
Edited by Skylark (11/22/10 03:52 PM)
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#195636 - 11/22/10 04:34 PM
Re: let's Speculate About Emma.
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Greg
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even if what you say is true, you continually engaged him here and often took the intiative in steering the discussion into personal areas
so your whole victim schpeel rings hollow
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#195637 - 11/22/10 04:40 PM
Re: let's Speculate About Emma.
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Skylark
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even if what you say is true, you continually engaged him here and often took the intiative in steering the discussion into personal areas
so your whole victim schpeel rings hollow
LOL!
Nope, sorry, bubba. HE was the one thwarted, not me.
Edited by Skylark (11/22/10 04:42 PM)
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#195638 - 11/22/10 04:58 PM
Re: let's Speculate About Emma.
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Greg
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I was there, Wabi and I would be having a good back and forth, you'd join in the conversation and it was a guessing game to see whether you or Wabi would go personnel first. It was definetly dysfunctional but you gladly joined in.
explain to me, why if he would hounded you, why you'd then come back and encourage him?
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#195653 - 11/23/10 12:11 AM
Re: let's Speculate About Emma.
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Paul I
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Because she is aware the Wabi is actually Emma. Great disguise, No?
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#195749 - 11/28/10 02:52 PM
Re: let's Speculate About Emma.
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Wabi-san
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I blocked wabi's emails from my yahoo mail (easy to do), and when he wouldn't stop emailing at work, I alerted the NMCI authorities, and they blocked all emails from his address. When he'd call here at work, I'd just hang up -- and simply because he HAD to have the last word on any "debate" on these boards, and had to bully me into "agreeing" with him.
This bullshit tale is increasingly embellished with each retelling. We had two -- count 'em -- contentious phone calls, after which she freaked and notified her goons. Or so she claims, since I never attempted to contact her after that to find out whether I was "blocked", save one email to inquire about her welfare after a natural disaster in her locale, which was met with a most rude response on the public forum.
To this day, she hangs on to the conflict, as evidenced by her continuing efforts to engage me at the least opportunity. Any normal person would simply ignore that which she wants nothing to do with. Not Wanda. She even made a brief appearance at PQ, licking her lips at the chance to shred me some more. Didn't quite work out, though, when nobody took her up on it. Eight months I've been gone from this board, and still she manages to find a reason to invoke my name and trash me. If that isn't twisted, I don't know what is.
Edited by Wabi-san (11/28/10 02:52 PM)
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#196056 - 12/05/10 07:27 PM
Re: let's Speculate About Emma.
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ævory
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Hi wabi, miss you being here.
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#196069 - 12/05/10 09:28 PM
Re: let's Speculate About Emma.
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Greg
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I think he may actually be gay, when he engaged me in extended long personal back and forth PMs my gaydar often went off and made me feel uncomfortable, something was definetly not right with the guy
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#196119 - 12/06/10 07:57 PM
Re: let's Speculate About Emma.
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Johnboy 64
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I think he may actually be gay, when he engaged me in extended long personal back and forth PMs my gaydar often went off and made me feel uncomfortable, something was definetly not right with the guy
and you have the gall to call me a shit stirrer. you're unfortable around gays and you call me bigot.
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