#195445 - 11/14/10 12:50 PM
Masturbating and Vibarators
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Leadbelly
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Registered: 11/14/10
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Hi all,
I am Incomplete SCI C6-C7 guy that has been very,very frustrated about "masturbating" or enjoying myself without another women or guy. I can't be alone in this type of situation, or am I?? I mean there must be a way to enjoy sex or getting off after the SCI? I have about 95% of feeling around my body. I know I've had a orgasm before.
What would any of you suggest for a the best Vibrator, I don't think I could afford that Ferticare Vibrator.
Any help would be great.
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#195463 - 11/16/10 01:53 AM
Re: Masturbating and Vibarators
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4wheeler
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Registered: 02/26/08
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Loc: Riverside Co.,CA
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First Welcome to the forum.
But trust me you are not the only one.There are times when I get maybe not frustrated but wanting to have some kind of sexual release.Infact,alot lately.I am a T-10 complete and unlike you I can't hold a hard on for no longer than a minute.Can not ejaculate at all.Masturbating is one thing but it is just you and that makes it tuff to really enjoy any kind of sexual physicality.
You said with an woman or another guy so I take it you are bi?
Have you tried having sex since your injury?
Have you tried getting with anybody?
Maybe not just to try to start a relationship but just like a little hook up at a party or bar.Sometimes just kissing can release some of that sexual frustation.
Now I haven't kissed anybody since months before my injury but I am quite content with that.I also had never had sex before my injury so maybe that helps.
Also,I had never heard of that Ferticare Vibrator before now so I couldn't tell you how much it could be or if it even works.
Edited by 4wheeler (11/16/10 01:58 AM)
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#195648 - 11/22/10 11:37 PM
Re: Masturbating and Vibarators
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4wheeler
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114 other views at this and nobody else can relate to this question?
I don't know if the OP has been back to look for responses or maybe he got his answer from somewhere else but atleast others here can give some insight.
I would come here and check to see if there have been other responses.Just funny that there are none.
And is it me or does this forum here seem to be the place for the 1 question 1 post forum quite a bit?
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#195674 - 11/23/10 07:41 PM
Re: Masturbating and Vibarators
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soda
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the guy across the street is gonna diddle my prostate thanksgiving-day. i'll have a full report.
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#195684 - 11/24/10 01:40 PM
Re: Masturbating and Vibarators
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soda
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shhhh! sal's married.but we're gonna try. i figure a lil' lube.
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#195686 - 11/24/10 01:58 PM
Re: Masturbating and Vibarators
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4wheeler
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Your secret is safe here soda.You just tell him to be careful with that turkey baster.They can be rough.
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#195688 - 11/24/10 02:19 PM
Re: Masturbating and Vibarators
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soda
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don't tell Mr Potter; he gets so jealous!
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#195691 - 11/24/10 02:48 PM
Re: Masturbating and Vibarators
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4wheeler
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Loc: Riverside Co.,CA
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Mr. Potter?
What does that rich old fart gotta do with it?
Did he offer you a bank job to? But first you play stuff the turkey with him?
You sure get around soda.
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#197552 - 02/10/11 11:55 AM
Re: Masturbating and Vibarators
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luanne55
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Registered: 07/29/10
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But seriously folks....I'm a 55 yo woman who always thought I'd be sexually active until I die. Three years ago if you had told me otherwise, or that I wouldn't be able to walk, I wouldn't have thought it possible. As it happened, I feel nothing below my waist, but my upper body is the same as before. Except my rack is quite nice from gaining 30 pounds. They say the brain is the real sex organ. My brain has occasionally told me I was horny, but I can't feel my hand feeling my goodies. Battery powered devices do nothing. I don't even care.
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#197557 - 02/10/11 01:57 PM
Re: Masturbating and Vibarators
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MrsDrublic
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Registered: 04/03/09
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Loc: los angeles ish
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Hi all,
I am Incomplete SCI C6-C7 guy that has been very,very frustrated about "masturbating" or enjoying myself without another women or guy. I can't be alone in this type of situation, or am I?? I mean there must be a way to enjoy sex or getting off after the SCI? I have about 95% of feeling around my body. I know I've had a orgasm before.
What would any of you suggest for a the best Vibrator, I don't think I could afford that Ferticare Vibrator.
Any help would be great.
from all ive learned everyone is so diff, u might just need to shop around and try new stuff on ur own. if u have that much feeling in general, maybe try toys that heat up? can u feel temperature? my mr cant feel temp or touch down there, not the same way most men do, but he feels pressure... and he can finish, it takes an hr, but he can do it.
i say try toys that get warm or maybe cold, bc if the vibration isnt enough the temperature might help bring some nerves to life, so to speak.
are u male or female? that would probly help everyone give u an answer that would be useful to u. i wish u luck, and if it makes u feel any better, im an AB female, and i have a hard time getting off, we're all diff, and sometimes it just takes patience and some extra effort.
if it ends up that u cant climax, remember theres other parts that have sensation, and tho u may not feel 'satisfied' in the 'normal' sense, u may feel content after some good foreplay., even if ur doing it with just urself hehe
for the mr and i, its a lot of hands toys and mouth work,outside of sex, for either of us to feel satisfied.. which is not easy by any means but, its worth the effort. hes an incomplete quad, all levels of injury take a toll on u, jus keep on keepin on. 
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#197576 - 02/12/11 12:03 PM
Re: Masturbating and Vibarators
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sweetqt
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Hello sweety I had to stop and reply to the temperature toys, lol. I had no clue they had them although I can see why they might. Very interesting I hope all is well with you and Congrats on the engagement, you deserve it!!
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#197577 - 02/12/11 12:34 PM
Re: Masturbating and Vibarators
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MrsDrublic
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Hello sweety I had to stop and reply to the temperature toys, lol. I had no clue they had them although I can see why they might. Very interesting I hope all is well with you and Congrats on the engagement, you deserve it!!
ty lovely!!! hehe im excited weeeeeeeeee! the temp toys are really kool,i like the ones that heat up, cold stuff makes me wanna hit ppl lol. hows uuuu? i like ur pic!
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#197578 - 02/12/11 12:45 PM
Re: Masturbating and Vibarators
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sweetqt
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Lol, I never even knew they had them. I like the vibration myself, plug that baby in the wall and im all set haha
Things are good here Your looking great as well!
Nice to see you back here, I stop in every once in awhile just to be nosy and see how all is doing
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#197579 - 02/12/11 05:25 PM
Re: Masturbating and Vibarators
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MrsDrublic
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yeah ive been a lurkey fcker heh, had so much goin on i wasnt feelin so very social. but stuffs a changin,ima move soon woohoo
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#197580 - 02/12/11 07:35 PM
Re: Masturbating and Vibarators
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sweetqt
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Yay!!!!!!! Im so happy for you :)~ I get you on the nonsocial thing I get that way alot. Ah well, we all need it sometimes.
Are you ready to move to the cold? You are not going to miss the warmth??
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#197583 - 02/12/11 10:48 PM
Re: Masturbating and Vibarators
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MrsDrublic
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ha i cant wait to go freeze my ass off, its horrible when its -40 ughhhhh but, id rather be cold than hot. he keeps tellin me ima hate it, and im sure eventually i wont be a fan, but i keep tellin him, i have a warm house.. dry clothes.. a hot shower and a warm man, ill survive. hehe i wasnt meant for the heat anyways,gives me wicked headaches and tho i tan well, it feels like my skin is being fried when i sit outside longer than 10 min. makes me wonder if i have a mild sun allergy. i dunno
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#197635 - 02/19/11 09:33 PM
Re: Masturbating and Vibarators
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Jaywheeler
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Registered: 02/18/11
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Loc: Melbourne, Australia
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my perents have been my carrers since the start of my life. and you know..... i masturbate in bed and my own room and in private but i really want to see what its like in the shower. my problem is how do i get my perents to leave me alone in the shower for 5 minutes while i rub one out? this is a 22 year old habit we are tring to break here people! HELP!
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#197636 - 02/20/11 03:35 AM
Re: Masturbating and Vibarators
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MrsDrublic
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Loc: los angeles ish
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tell em u feel awkward at ur age, washing ur balls w them RIGHT there, im sure thas summin they could understand.. yanno
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#197637 - 02/20/11 04:15 AM
Re: Masturbating and Vibarators
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Jaywheeler
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Registered: 02/18/11
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hmmm maybe. this is gonna take some time
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