#195388 - 11/12/10 01:50 PM
Re: let's Speculate About Emma.
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corlorde
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LOL, I'm not even going to answer that question, which is stupid. But here is the deal, as long as you are here, I'm done, Because I can't stand you.
So please, stop emailing me and please leave me alone...and have at it.
~C
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#195389 - 11/12/10 01:55 PM
Re: let's Speculate About Emma.
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sweetqt
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As you said you were here first. And you need this forum more than I do.
I dont get you.... one minute I am "friend" and then back to this. I dont have the energy nor the desire to continue any of this. I think you are looking in the wrong place and assuming that other people are me.
I have told you, my days of chasing a fantasy are long gone.
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#195418 - 11/13/10 03:39 PM
Re: let's Speculate About Emma.
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flicka
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As you said you were here first. And you need this forum more than I do.
qt, are you disabled?
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#195451 - 11/15/10 12:45 PM
Re: let's Speculate About Emma.
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corlorde
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The answer is no.
A better question would be, how she got here? Answer: My name and/or email was typed into a search engine.
I actually don't care if AB people post here. What I care about is cyber stalking and harassment.
I'm at the point now, I should just type everything up, explain what it going on and why I act the way I do when it comes to this person. The more I think about it, the more I know and the less I like.
For example, I do not want an email from "sweetQt" but I get them anyway. I really should just put this shit to rest but it makes me f ucking angry.
A synopsis:
A few years ago, my wife and I where having major problems. We were for all things, doing our own things and not really together. At that time, I was doing a lot of drinking and going out and meeting women.. I love women. What I found out was, you might run in someone who takes things to another level...meaning falling in love and becoming obsessive...(My opening paragraph)
believe me, I have a lot to say, If pushed.
F uck, my email inbox is filled with the "sweetqt's" shit.
See? Every where I go, there she is.
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#195452 - 11/15/10 12:58 PM
Re: let's Speculate About Emma.
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corlorde
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I have thousands of these:
(this is today)
If you doubt it, I'll give you my password to my email.
Anyone want it, since I'm the asshole and such...
What is your problem? You talk to me, kinda apologize in your own jerk way. tell me you give in, although i had to wonder what you were giving in to. And then again you become an ass to me again. I was fine, again, not bothering you and not even remembering your name and u strike again , make a rude comment. I am not stupid i knw when you are talking about me and i know when you are thinking of me. I hate it, i hate the idea that you got me so aggravated that i am here again. We had good conversations and then this. You cant stand me? WELL I CANT STAND YOU I AM DONE WITH YOU you will not hear from me again, you call me friend? Then why do you do this? i thought we agreed a hello how are you, every once in a while would work....
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#195453 - 11/15/10 03:52 PM
Re: let's Speculate About Emma.
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sweetqt
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Corey
Why did you instant message me and ask me how school is going?
and why did you apologize when you had all intentions on doin this again?
Why did you reach out to me?
I have blocked you from my email and I will never fall for your games again.
I am done.
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#195454 - 11/15/10 03:55 PM
Re: let's Speculate About Emma.
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flicka
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A better question would be, how she got here? Answer: My name and/or email was typed into a search engine.
I actually don't care if AB people post here. What I care about is cyber stalking and harassment.
I agree. Of course you know I still feel guilty for having called you out of the blue! I guess us chicks just can't leave you alone. ;-)
Edited by flicka (11/15/10 03:55 PM)
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#195456 - 11/15/10 04:32 PM
Re: let's Speculate About Emma.
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Paul I
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Is sweetqt Emma? Stranger things have happened.
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#195457 - 11/15/10 05:05 PM
Re: let's Speculate About Emma.
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corlorde
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Why did you instant message me and ask me how school is going?
Your memory is faulty, which is nothing new.
What happened was, I was online for a purpose. Purpose being, your husband threatened to kill me and started screaming at my best friend, your husband's cousin. I asked you to tell your husband to reach out to his cousin. Then, I asked how school was going and that I gave in to your incessant emails and constantly trying to contact me. However, the more I thought about it, the more I realized that I want nothing to do with you. I really don't think I ever did. Should I tell everyone how I had to change my phone number, delete my Myspace account and block you on Facebook not to mention how I have blocked over a half dozen variations of your email addy? Remember how I did not reply to you for almost a year, despite your emails daily, weekly, and monthly for almost a year? Remember that? Should we really go there? Are you certain you want to push this issue? Somehow, I doubt it. Nothing speaks louder than the truth and sorry, I am no longer going to run from it. You never did answer the question...how did you get here and why are you obsessing over something that happened over what, 3 or 4 years ago?
From here on out, leave me alone, and I will do likewise.
If not, the truth will fall upon your head whether you like it or not, and I am not just speaking about here, of which I care for little.
I'm talking about, go away, and leave me alone.
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#195458 - 11/15/10 05:14 PM
Re: let's Speculate About Emma.
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corlorde
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Of course you know I still feel guilty for having called you out of the blue!
Good god flicka, you were just worried about me and was making sure I wasn't doing something stupid, if you catch my drift. I was falling into self pity, you recognized it right away and you were looking out for me. Nothing to apologize for.
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#195459 - 11/15/10 05:27 PM
Re: let's Speculate About Emma.
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sweetqt
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No my memory is not faulty. It is very clear indeed.
I am not going to continue with this, as this is not the place. Again, I made the mistake of trusting you and thinking that you actually were genuine.
Dont worry, as I said I have blocked you, this was the last straw. I do not have the time for this games. Life is too short. But good luck, I wish you the best.
I have given you many chances. too many.
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#195460 - 11/15/10 06:05 PM
Re: let's Speculate About Emma.
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Greg
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Last year I was involved in one of these type of "relationships". Was she to blame or was I? Depends on whose side you listen to.
"We" both found the only way to make it stop was to stop ALL communication. Don't even open/read emails or texts, just delete them. Be polite on the phone, say your busy and hang up. Getting angry just fuels the frustration. Avoid common areas you both might frequent.
For us it took a few months but eventually people move on.
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#195461 - 11/15/10 06:39 PM
Re: let's Speculate About Emma.
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corlorde
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"We" both found the only way to make it stop was to stop ALL communication. Don't even open/read emails or texts, just delete them. Be polite on the phone, say your busy and hang up. Getting angry just fuels the frustration. Avoid common areas you both might frequent.
For us it took a few months but eventually people move on.
Nice advice Greg, thanks, and I agree.
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#195477 - 11/17/10 06:04 PM
Re: let's Speculate About Emma.
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soda
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Your twisted... i am all set
*you are or you're
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#195478 - 11/17/10 06:06 PM
Re: let's Speculate About Emma.
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soda
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As you said you were here first. And you need this forum more than I do.
I dont get you.... one minute I am "friend" and then back to this. I dont have the energy nor the desire to continue any of this. I think you are looking in the wrong place and assuming that other people are me.
I have told you, my days of chasing a fantasy are long gone.
Are you two fvcking?
Greg
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