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#174488 - 12/08/09 09:59 AM married bis
kan5a5
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i watched 'brokeback mountain' yesterday. i especially noted the wives' ways of coping with what was either felt or known to various degrees. i wish there were more examples of living with that particular struggle in a healthy manner.

why any wife woud wait for the boys to descend from brokeback mountain is unclear to me. who deserves the ramshackle trailor of aloneness and who gets the warmth of home and why?
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#174553 - 12/09/09 12:24 AM Re: married bis [Re: kan5a5]
Paul I
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Not to downplay it in any way I would think it the most guilt free reason, for the wife to separate.
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#174554 - 12/09/09 02:36 AM Re: married bis [Re: Paul I]
kan5a5
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no doubt.

FTR - i never hid anything from my wife. before we began dating, she and (at least three) guys i dated hung out together. i had broken up with a woman i was with for five years and went through a spell of thinking that i wouldn't be with another woman ever. i didn't make it a year.
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#187318 - 05/28/10 04:15 AM Re: married bis [Re: kan5a5]
skm
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Iam a spinal card injury person of T11-T12.I want chat with girl who is understanding my condition
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#187331 - 05/28/10 06:09 PM Re: married bis [Re: skm]
inkblister
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don't we all skm... don't we all...
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#187335 - 05/28/10 07:20 PM Re: married bis [Re: skm]
Lola
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Originally Posted By: skm
Iam a spinal card injury person of T11-T12.I want chat with girl who is understanding my condition


i am a c4-5 and i do understand your condition in more ways than one.

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#187425 - 05/31/10 04:13 AM Re: married bis [Re: Lola]
skm
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shall i know your conditions of life and before and after injury
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#187448 - 05/31/10 06:52 PM Re: married bis [Re: skm]
Lola
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before- i was very active! i started dancing at 2 yrs old and went to study ballet classic and flamenco, academically and at home, since i am from southern spain and flamenco is part of our daily lives. i also started gymastics and joined the school team since pre school till i graduated high school.

i worked up to 13 hours a day 6 days a week and sometimes even sunday, between being manager of an import/export enterprise and being a dance instructor and part of a dance company. we used to perform in public a lot and i'd do solo performances too.

after- i don't do much. i spend my day watching TV, movies and in the computer. i occasionally go out shopping or to doctor appts, but i am mostly home.

big change, huh?

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#187460 - 06/01/10 04:28 AM Re: married bis [Re: Lola]
skm
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How you r going for shopping? by using any Calibers, crutches like extra things
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#187500 - 06/01/10 07:40 PM Re: married bis [Re: skm]
Lola
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i am a quadriplegic, i can't walk, so i can't use crutches.
i use a motorized wheelchair.

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#187525 - 06/02/10 10:49 PM Re: married bis [Re: Lola]
skm
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If yoy donot mind Shall i know your age and from which place? How you are managing your bladder and bowl condition. I pray the god that you will get well soon. God bless you
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#187526 - 06/02/10 11:02 PM Re: married bis [Re: Lola]
skm
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If you donot mind shall I know your age and where from you? How you are managing bladder and bowl condition? I pray the god that you will get well soon. God bless you.
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#187566 - 06/03/10 08:22 PM Re: married bis [Re: skm]
Lola
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i am 34 y/o, originally from andalucia, spain, but living in new hampshire, US.

i manage my bladder with a suprapubic catheter and bowels with suppositories and on my own, too.

where are you from?

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#187568 - 06/03/10 10:54 PM Re: married bis [Re: Lola]
skm
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Iam from Chennai, Tamilnadu state, India. shall i get your email id as personal discussion and corresponding with you. if ok then will discuss personal
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#187569 - 06/03/10 10:56 PM Re: married bis [Re: Lola]
skm
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Iam from Chennai, Tamilnadu state, India. shall i get your email id as personal discussion and corresponding with you. if ok then will discuss personal.Who is taking care of you and who are with you
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