#160009 - 08/24/09 03:23 PM
Re: positions
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corlorde
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I thought I gave some pretty good advice, in my own round about away. Since there seems to be a limited supply of AB - Crip men who are willing to step forward and give details (other than "practice"...NO SHIT!!), I thought I'd offer my own opinion.
Oh well.
Edited by corlorde (08/24/09 03:28 PM)
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#160012 - 08/24/09 03:30 PM
Re: positions
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corlorde
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ur opinion is rather rude most the time corey, and no matter how 'nice' or 'helpful' u THINK u are being, ive seen ppl offended by ur replies
I do not dispute that. I've heard of people being offended by you being here and posting pictures. It has never stopped you, has it?
Edited by corlorde (08/24/09 03:31 PM)
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#160016 - 08/24/09 03:45 PM
Re: positions
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mac21268
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Sexy time is all about getting into a groove with someone you have strong feelings for/with. IMO.
I have to agree with those who say "practice" but yeah, I totally understand that when you're in a LDR it's not that easy. But once you're together, just get naked and be together...with no expectations or performance goals.
I had a lot of sex before my injury and a lot after, and I can say without any question, the best sex has been with my husband and in the last 5 years -- and it just keeps getting better, no shit.
Love is amazing that way...it breaks down so many barriers and insecurities -- and once all that shit is gone, whoa...um yeah.
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#160017 - 08/24/09 03:46 PM
Re: positions
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corlorde
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Original post modified for the crybaby:
Your problem is, you are focusing on the genitals. There is more to love making than that. When you are a "man on wheels" and you have lost total sensation in your genital area...you do not give a...
Kiss the Mr.... touch him where his sensation is.
I really do hope I have helped.
Be seeing you,
~Corey
(((Ok ok, I have modified my post to be more of your liking.)))
Better now?
Edited by corlorde (08/24/09 03:49 PM)
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#160018 - 08/24/09 03:49 PM
Re: positions
[Re: corlorde]
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MrsDrublic
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im sure my posting of pics is offensive to the ppl that choose to stare at my tits and judge me  and thas fine, STARE at them! although, my tits arent the point of my fotos...obviously, or id only post pics of my tits which is the MOST skin that has been seen from my body, besides one legg and honestly i dont see how its offensive, in the beautiful pic Lola posted of herself u see a legg and cleav.. and its beautiful, u also see collar bone.. mmmm decolletage. if ppl take offence to a CLOTHED female body, maybe FEMALE bodies arent for them  food for thought
also, as ParaDude has said..the ppl that complain dont seem to have the guts or whatever, to post a pic of themselves.. so DOCTOR corey, whats ur take on THAT? ive seen ur foto, not many other ppls tho hmmmmmmm
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#160020 - 08/24/09 04:00 PM
Re: positions
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corlorde
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I've grown tired of posting my photo..I have met 3 or 4 people from here.. I have nothing left to prove. Nothing..
My advice stands, ask your "Mr." what he needs or wants (so long as it works for you as well).
"positions" be dammed. As a guy, I am sure he welcomes your attention, in whatever form you guys jointly decide is ok.
Goodbye.
~C
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#160028 - 08/24/09 05:36 PM
Re: positions
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MrsDrublic
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Sexy time is all about getting into a groove with someone you have strong feelings for/with. IMO.
I have to agree with those who say "practice" but yeah, I totally understand that when you're in a LDR it's not that easy. But once you're together, just get naked and be together...with no expectations or performance goals.
I had a lot of sex before my injury and a lot after, and I can say without any question, the best sex has been with my husband and in the last 5 years -- and it just keeps getting better, no shit.
Love is amazing that way...it breaks down so many barriers and insecurities -- and once all that shit is gone, whoa...um yeah.
i missed this post earlier, but i wanted to say HIIIIIII and ty for replying i dont have preformance issues or expectations of him persay, i just wanna make the best of sex that we can, and since im czech w the signature big leggs and bum, and his leggs dont go straight, and he has an ostomy, theres only SO MUCH i can do in bed when it comes to the actual ACT of sex.. so i thought well maybe im missing sumthing, since its new to me, i should ask ppl that might know better than i do so i thank agian the ppl that were constructive, not just critical
Edited by MrsDrublic (08/24/09 05:45 PM)
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#160029 - 08/24/09 05:41 PM
Re: positions
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MrsDrublic
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Original post modified for the crybaby:
Your problem is, you are focusing on the genitals. There is more to love making than that. When you are a "man on wheels" and you have lost total sensation in your genital area...you do not give a...
Kiss the Mr.... touch him where his sensation is.
I really do hope I have helped.
Be seeing you,
~Corey
(((Ok ok, I have modified my post to be more of your liking.)))
Better now?
no iam not plzd with ur 'edit' corey, and no it doesnt make a diff what u say, re word, or otherwise, bc i know u can only be nice and civil for a limited ammount of time. no use in making friends w sum1 that refuses to act like a friend right?
furthermore OBVIOUSLY w sum1 that has limited sensation and mobility, id be doing more foreplay than anything else, and focusing on the parts of him that DO have sensation,however i didnt ask u bout foreplay, i asked the ppl here in general, about the ACT OF SEX, positions...not foreplay. i look forward to the day u are nice all on ur own, with out back n fourth insults and pointless accusations or whatever other crap seems to ooze from these forums.
TO SAY IT AGAIN:
ty to the nice ppl, ty to the helpful ppl, and ty for educating me on the things ive asked bout, its appreciated!
also, Lola, if ur reading this...hi!!!!!
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#160033 - 08/24/09 06:06 PM
Re: positions
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ParaDude
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I thought I gave some pretty good advice, in my own round about away. Since there seems to be a limited supply of AB - Crip men who are willing to step forward and give details (other than "practice"...NO SHIT!!), I thought I'd offer my own opinion.
Oh well.
When you get yourself a woman feel free to offer the details of your experiences together. I haven't actually asked my wife if she'd mind me talking to people on the internet about what her favorite positions are but I'll assume those are details she'd rather we kept to ourselves.
eta - I offered up the advice of "practice" and followed that up with a few other thoughts, for whatever reason you felt the need to post your little (real small) dig at my comment...not sure why the need to take the shot but heh...if that's the road you'd like to take then I'm more the happy to play along too.
Edited by ParaDude (08/24/09 06:47 PM)
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#160036 - 08/24/09 06:28 PM
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Lola
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 hi, mrsD xoxo
how are you doing?
sorry i can't help you with your questions since i have only had real intercourse with AB guys since i've been disabled. each woman feels differently. i have total sensation in my genitals, but nothing turns me more on than kisses and little bites in my neck/shoulder area. vaginally speaking, i have lots of sensation in the area between the vagina itself and the urethra. i can have an orgasm easily if this area is estimulated the right way
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#160039 - 08/24/09 06:37 PM
Re: positions
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mac21268
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nothing turns me more on than kisses and little bites in my neck/shoulder area.
kissing/making out can be so f*cking hot. I never really appreciated kissing much in my 20's and early 30's -- but now...yeah.
It's like I remembered how hot and bothered making out made me back in junior high and high school...and recalled why it's a great thing! LOL
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#160042 - 08/24/09 06:46 PM
Re: positions
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starlight.2
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general note:
i found this on sexualhealth.com, a good reference for sex & dx info:
Question:
I am a c5 quad and when making love my wife is always on top. She complains this hurts her legs and we don't make love very often. What if anything can we do to change this?
Answer:
by Linda Mona: (05/20/2004)
hi kurt! thanks for your question. having a disability that limits mobility forces many of us to be more creative in the bedroom. sounds like you have one position that works for you but it does not work for your wife so well. have you tried having intercourse in your wheelchair? she could try sitting on you with her back pressed against your chest or facing you kneeling or with her legs straddling you (of course, some of this is more difficult or easy depending upon the type of wheelchair that you have--arms removable, etc). you two can also try different positions in the shower depending upon your shower seat and the way in which your shower is set up. can you lay on your side with your wife's assistance? she may be able to prop you up with pillows so that you stay this way and then move your legs in a position so that she has access to your penis. good luck with the experimenting!!! Dr. Mona
Reviewed by Sexual Health Editorial Team
hope this helps.
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#160046 - 08/24/09 06:49 PM
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MrsDrublic
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nothing turns me more on than kisses and little bites in my neck/shoulder area. kissing/making out can be so f*cking hot. I never really appreciated kissing much in my 20's and early 30's -- but now...yeah. It's like I remembered how hot and bothered making out made me back in junior high and high school...and recalled why it's a great thing! LOL
haha oh so true! its one of my fav things to do too, and i like to trade rub downs, for the sexual and general pain-killing purposes, makes for a nice relaxed, sexy time and a good nites sleep hehe.
hows u today? good i hope
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