Practice.

so i was wondering...

this is to the males:


man on wheels...

Your problem is, you are focusing on the genitals. There is more to love making than that. When you are a "man on wheels" and you have lost total sensation in your genital area...you do not give a f*ck about c*ck in p*ssy, or c*ck in ass (like your web cam site suggests). Kiss the Mr.... touch him where his sensation is. If a d*ck is so important to you and the rest of you stupid AB bitches, get him on some pills...and leave him wanting...

Practice.

OH GEE WOULD U LOOOOOK AT THIS!! i got an email from SUM1 THAT ISNT AN ASS!! ooo look HEEELLLPPPFFUUULLLLL wooooowwww http://www.liberator.com

ONE PERSON was helpful ty to u ONE PERSON!!

corey ur an idiot, and FYI my male HAS sensation in his dick!!!

And so it is with my man.

I will forever be on top. I can think of worse. WAY worse.

An option for consideration:

You want to be on the bottom? Then get yourself some battery operated toys, have HIM manipulate them the way you like it, and role-play. It works for us.

-- I hope I'm not a "stupid AB bitch" -- well, at least not the "stupid" part.

Yeah, then perhaps you should ask him what he likes, instead of a bunch of random cripples you do not know.

FYI: You have no idea how to blow anyone's mind, because you are a simpleton.

Good luck with that.

~C

Heh...my idea of "practice" is most helpful. Two people don't always have to have success in the bed (or kitchen countertop), it's the practicing itself that is fun. Practice Practice Practice....

I'm hurt you did not find my one word advice...helpful.

y are u still talking to me corey?

Call it an education. You're not receptive, cool.

we do use toys and manual manipulation, which is great, but since i only get so much time with him in person, till i move... i decided to ask Qs.. seems bc i ask Qs ppl here like to be mean to me, and i must say i was suprised to see that u werent condescending toward me today, so thx to u

True enough Mrs.DD...practice is tough when there are miles in between.

I guess it comes down to the same shit we face in any new relationship AB or otherwise, and every crip is different as well.

AB to AB relationships that are new and are moving towards being sexual are loaded with questions as well. Do they like it rough, to they like it soft, slow, fast, are they bendy, are they athletic, are they...can they...will they...

There is no handbook on how to proceed in a relationship with anyone...hits all spank and miss and even the spanking part has to be negotiated.

Sure, whatever. (Though I thought you had put me on "IGNORE" ... )

AB/DIS couples are no different than AB/AB couples. Communicate. Experiment. Satisfy. It isn't rocket science.

id been nice bc it seemed u were tryin to be nice, i see now that was a mistake, carry on

drub.........you cannot pull strings w/o expecting to get your own pulled. But somehow, I think you already know this. No one is stupid here...not you and not anyone else.

judge judge judge blah blah boohoo eat me princess

Your posts reveal you quite well, Mrs. Drublic.

ur opinion is rather rude most the time corey, and no matter how 'nice' or 'helpful' u THINK u are being, ive seen ppl offended by ur replies

Sexy time is all about getting into a groove with someone you have strong feelings for/with. IMO.

I have to agree with those who say "practice" but yeah, I totally understand that when you're in a LDR it's not that easy. But once you're together, just get naked and be together...with no expectations or performance goals.
I had a lot of sex before my injury and a lot after, and I can say without any question, the best sex has been with my husband and in the last 5 years -- and it just keeps getting better, no shit.
Love is amazing that way...it breaks down so many barriers and insecurities -- and once all that shit is gone, whoa...um yeah.

Original post modified for the crybaby:

Your problem is, you are focusing on the genitals. There is more to love making than that. When you are a "man on wheels" and you have lost total sensation in your genital area...you do not give a...

Kiss the Mr.... touch him where his sensation is.

I really do hope I have helped.

Be seeing you,

~Corey
(((Ok ok, I have modified my post to be more of your liking.)))

Better now?

I thought I gave some pretty good advice, in my own round about away. Since there seems to be a limited supply of AB - Crip men who are willing to step forward and give details (other than "practice"...NO SHIT!!), I thought I'd offer my own opinion.

Oh well.

nothing turns me more on than kisses and little bites in my neck/shoulder area.

Question:
I am a c5 quad and when making love my wife is always on top. She complains this hurts her legs and we don't make love very often. What if anything can we do to change this?

Answer:
by Linda Mona: (05/20/2004)
hi kurt! thanks for your question. having a disability that limits mobility forces many of us to be more creative in the bedroom. sounds like you have one position that works for you but it does not work for your wife so well. have you tried having intercourse in your wheelchair? she could try sitting on you with her back pressed against your chest or facing you kneeling or with her legs straddling you (of course, some of this is more difficult or easy depending upon the type of wheelchair that you have--arms removable, etc). you two can also try different positions in the shower depending upon your shower seat and the way in which your shower is set up. can you lay on your side with your wife's assistance? she may be able to prop you up with pillows so that you stay this way and then move your legs in a position so that she has access to your penis. good luck with the experimenting!!! Dr. Mona

Reviewed by Sexual Health Editorial Team

kissing/making out can be so f*cking hot. I never really appreciated kissing much in my 20's and early 30's -- but now...yeah.
It's like I remembered how hot and bothered making out made me back in junior high and high school...and recalled why it's a great thing! LOL

general note:

i found this on sexualhealth.com, a good reference for sex & dx info:



hope this helps.

I am good. Today was my sons first day of college. Wow. I feel a little bit ancient, but oh well...better than dead.
Was so cute...he and his best friend came by here after school with 2 cute girls, then headed off to go bowling. My baby is growing up!! *sniff sniff*


Hey...I was just thinking back and a guy who used to post here who is spinal cord injured used to say that he and his wife had a lot of good times sexually when using that liberator pillow thingy...

here's the link:

http://www.liberator.com/

ty! it is a nice help, this is the info i was looking for.. ideas ideas ideas!!! nething else of this nature would be greatly appreciated

here is a great positional chair my exwife and I used alot.It might give you some ideas and spice up some fun.Im a c-5,6 quad and I loved this thing. Its big and bulky and no hiding it from the relatives when they come for a visit...lol
but here is there site. http://www.dreamlovechair.nl/positions_uk.html

jeff

This machine was posted over on paradevo a while back. I don't recall its name. It looks promising but sits too low for me. I recall that it can glide back and forth, so that the guy can do the pumping.

every womans job.......

This machine was posted over on paradevo a while back. I don't recall its name. It looks promising but sits too low for me. I recall that it can glide back and forth, so that the guy can do the pumping.