JimCanSeeYou
(Junior Member)
02/04/10 10:17 PM
Sex With One of my Aides

I need your opinion. This cute little Latino lady helps me as a sub occasionally. We have flirted for a while but now we regularly have sex. It's really good and I'm addicted to it. I'm a high level incomplete quad. I work well especially if I pop a little blue pill.

Do you think this is a problem? I have no other intentions with her other than sex and I think the same is true for her.

Thanks


Captain Legless
(Member)
02/04/10 10:35 PM
Re: Sex With One of my Aides

You lucky *astard!!
Does she have any mates?? :-)


tooleyC7T1
(Junior Member)
02/05/10 04:25 AM
Re: Sex With One of my Aides

you're my new hero.

Don't rock the boat!


lazer
(Member)
02/05/10 01:33 PM
Re: Sex With One of my Aides

been there, done that, and it will bite u in the ass eventually, lol

enjoy the ride while it lasts because her being a girl, her emotions or guilt will hit her

most girls are built that way, unless they are the 'fun girl' type

then be prepared to lose her as a aide

but im happy for u, its too bad most girls see occasional sex as taboo, hehe


starlight.2
(Member)
02/07/10 03:09 PM
Re: Sex With One of my Aides

there are lots of different opinions on this. most agree that there's a real risk that eventually it could put you into an unequal dual-role relationship fraught with all manner of power issues. if you do go thru with this i would advise you to be VERY careful.

paradocs
(Member)
02/08/10 01:00 PM
Re: Sex With One of my Aides

Be prepared for fatherhood just in case!

Anton Matesi
(Junior Member)
07/06/10 01:03 PM
Re: Sex With One of my Aides

I once had a nurse willing to give me a hand. It worked out for a while but then she felt too uncomfortable. People will tell you about dilemmas and conflicts. You guys are both adults, right? This is what life is made of. Sex between co workers happens all the time. Just remember to keep the work relationship friendly but not sloppy. And DON'T tell anyone around you or they'll fire her. My nurse eventually left for other reasons and we're still friends. Live.

Clem CLem
(Junior Member)
12/05/11 02:18 PM
Re: Sex With One of my Aides

just don't matter,
enjoy, that's so simple !
who cares today she is you aides, tomorow your wifes,
it happends, people met love at work, school, sports, jail, and many other situation.
today you juste have sex, maybe later she will marry you.
just try, follow your heart.


crappieman
(Junior Member)
02/10/12 01:15 PM
Re: Sex With One of my Aides

Take life one day at a time and enjoy it any way you can.

Get your pleasures where and when you can with no regrets.

Be honest with her and hopefully it will be a long relationship and if not thank God you had the fun times you did and more will come in the future.